How many blessing text messages have you received on New Year’s Eve today?

Since it’s New Year’s Day, instead of talking about the workplace, we continue to chat about family matters.

Today is New Year's Eve. Everyone's WeChat will definitely receive a lot of blessings. Anyone with a discerning eye will know at a glance that they are messages that are simply copied and then forwarded with the movement of a finger. It seems like a concise blessing, why am I so disgusted and too lazy to pay attention to it? It is because these blessings come too simply, too easily, and too casually. We will be pleasantly surprised when we receive them the first few times, but later they become more and more like garbage.

I don’t really like to pay attention to this kind of blessing message. Even if it is sent by a friend with whom I have a good relationship, I will reply with a few simple blessing words by myself, even if it is just a simple " Although the three words "Happy New Year" are very simple and easy, at least I typed them out with my fingers one pinyin after another. It is not random, it represents my sincere blessing. Maybe the other party will feel that they have lost money because of just three words. But for a true friend, he will understand you and not mind.

Many people take the opportunity of sending blessings in groups to test whether the other party has deleted their friends. For those who have not contacted each other for many years but have stayed in the address book and cannot see their friend circle for half a year, if On weekdays, if you send a link to clear your followers alone, you will definitely be despised by the other party, but the Chinese New Year just gives you a legitimate opportunity to get a closer look and find out the answer by sending blessings.

Some people simply think they see a good blessing text message in the group, for example, there are various shapes and creative ones. They think it is fun and collect it, and then want to share it with themselves. Relatives and friends, this is a bit like getting a fun toy when you were a child, and you want other friends to see and play with it.

For some people, it is even simpler. They save the steps of copying, pasting and forwarding, and simplify the three steps into one. Collect or make a New Year greetings emoticon package, and click on everyone's messages. Interface, one-click sending, more time-saving and effort-saving. I often encounter a lot of emoticon crashes. But some people may also be a little creative, such as using their own photos to make emoticons, making some funny moves, and adding a few words of blessing. Although they are also sent with one click, they are quite thoughtful. For this kind of blessing, I always reply as soon as possible, because the other person is very considerate, and I also hope that I can convey my wish in the shortest time after receiving the other person's blessing.

This is a bit like what I mentioned in my previous article. The excessive use of mobile phones has reduced the temperature between the two people in front of the screen. There are many people who don't often communicate with each other. After looking through the chat history, they discovered that the last communication was last year's Spring Festival greeting message. It can be said that they can't see the greetings on weekdays. They come back every year during the Spring Festival.

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Having said so much, what about those blessing text messages sent to groups during the New Year? Should you reply or not?

As mentioned above, I will look at it dialectically and analyze whether it is worth returning through the blessings I received and even the language. I will not forgive those setters who work extremely hard.

I even think that since the Spring Festival is a day for family reunion, while we are gathering with our relatives, we should also take time to meet our friends. After all, we can communicate with our friends during our hard work in the past year. It can only be through phone calls or WeChat, but chatting, drinking and talking face to face is far better than being across the cold screen of a mobile phone to bring each other closer and listen to what has happened to the other person in the past year. After all, there are many things. We can't get along on WeChat, and it's awkward to talk about it in person, but once we've had three drinks, it's time to really express our feelings. But you have to be moderate, after all, drinking too much alcohol is not a good thing.

The Year of the Rat is here again, and it’s another cycle. I wish everyone a fruitful harvest in the new year!