What to do if your confession to a girl is rejected?

What should I do if my confession to a girl is rejected? To confess to a girl is actually to put the decision-making power in the girl's hands. She may agree or refuse, and the one who suffers is the one who confessed to the girl. Of course it would be great if the girl accepts your confession, but what if the girl rejects your confession? How to do this? Let’s analyze what you should do if you confess your love to a girl and get rejected?

1. Don’t be depressed and doubt yourself

After confessing to being rejected by a girl, most people are angry at first, and then they start to fall into deep inferiority and self-doubt. You will question yourself, even if you have done this, why do girls reject you? Is it because you are too bad? You will also deny yourself, no matter how much you give, it will be in vain, no matter how hard you try, it will be worthless, and your life will indeed be a failure. You will even doubt yourself, whether you are not worthy of being favored by girls like girls, whether you are not good at this or that.

It is normal to be rejected when you express your love. In fact, this is because the initial attraction is not achieved, and you start to expose your own needs. The results are often very miserable. I, the editor, have not been the same before. It was only later that I learned a secret book on picking up girls - "Jiang Han. The Art of Love", which completely changed many of my misunderstandings about love. After that, I practiced all the love skills in the book. Now I am already single. My girlfriend's relationship has always been stable, and she gets along very well with the female colleagues in the company. Single brothers, it’s time to learn Jiang Han’s love skills. There is an e-book on the Internet. The practical methods in it can be used directly. It is still very easy to get out of singles.

Even if your confession is rejected, you should not be depressed, you should be happy. If it's like you said, you've worked hard and changed, but she still rejects you, it can only mean that you two are really not suitable for each other. Because two people being together is a matter of two people, and one person cannot completely change the result by chasing after them all the time. Maybe it’s your outlook on life, maybe your background, maybe it’s your region, there are so many factors that determine whether you can be together.

In short, when you work hard to change her to the way she likes it, but the result still doesn't match, it can only mean that you two were not suitable from the beginning.

2. Learn to stop losses in time

In fact, when you express your love and are rejected by a girl, you should be glad that the girl did not hang you, and you will not hang on a tree like some brothers. On the tree, he hit his head with blood and lost all his money.

You no longer have to fight a protracted war for a woman and waste your youth in vain.

You just stay in place for three seconds and cry bitterly for a while. You can suit up and start again anytime and anywhere.

You will gain more opportunities to meet more outstanding girls, and maybe true love will come around the next corner.

3. The next time you confess your love, you need to meet three major conditions

Of course, being rejected once does not mean anything. Don’t make the same mistake next time you meet a girl you like! This confession needs to meet three major conditions. Once satisfied, you can confess.

The first condition is that you have a friendship with her, not an ordinary friendship, to the level of buddies.

You two can basically talk about anything. You point out that she has gained weight, darkened, and her eyebrows are crooked. She doesn’t mind at all. She talks freely in front of you without any baggage. She sits cross-legged. Mouth is oily and quite relaxing.

The second condition is that she has mood swings towards you, which is not just pure care and support, but also a mixture of sweetness, bitterness, spicyness and saltiness.

You won’t be afraid that she will be angry with you and ignore you. You won’t keep pleasing her and licking her. If she makes you unhappy, you dare to say it. If she does something wrong, you dare to correct her. She has feelings for you. Happy, sad, angry, jealous, anxious, worried, all kinds of emotions.

The third condition is that you really know her well enough, not just what she says to you, but you know her from the side.

Her family background, daily arrangements, emotional relationships, consumption levels, likes and dislikes, her true attitude towards you, how well she knows you, how she evaluates you to others...

The above analysis of what to do even if your confession to a girl is rejected, you only need to meet these three conditions of friendship, emotion, and understanding, and you can pay attention to the ambiguous window period. Once you feel that she particularly likes to chat with you during a certain period of time, don't be timid and ask her out to play quickly. Make an appointment two or three times, and every time she has a great time, don't be timid, give her hints, and test her attitude.

If she is also ambiguous, don't be timid, confess directly and confirm the relationship.