Text me when my ex gets married tomorrow. Should I go?

I said it was all my own doing.

Thursday is fine.

"Yao, I will get married tomorrow. If you are free, I hope you can come. "

I suddenly received a text message from my ex-A. Why is it called A? Because I really hope that he is just a symbol and a letter in my heart, not a person's past.

Get the news. My brain is running at full speed, and I summed up two points:

One: He still has my number. I may have changed my mobile phone for three years, but I didn't abandon my number. Even if I didn't change my mobile phone, I didn't delete the number. Do you still have it for me?

Number two: He's married. Yo, that was fast. Married at the age of 25, and doesn't even have a boyfriend.

I was holding my mobile phone, and the screen went black after 15 seconds. I can't decide whether to go or not.

Take out the paper and start drawing mind maps.

In the first case, go.

Now that you have decided to go.

First question, what are you wearing?

(1) Wear something nice.

(1) What? You are so insecure that you need clothes to give you enough confidence to attend your ex's wedding?

Or do you still have illusions about this relationship that has ended? Want to dress beautifully in front of him and rekindle his desire for you? And then throw away your present hand in public and get back together with you?

(2) Dress casually

(1) Personally, will I feel a little insecure and regret when I see the bride wearing a beautiful and dazzling wedding dress?

(b) As far as his predecessor is concerned, will he have a feeling that he made a quite correct choice when comparing the beautiful incumbent with the unchanging predecessor?

Second question, how much money do you have?

( 1) Duo

Come on, this is love rat who dumped you before. I feel sick to spend another penny!

(2) Less

You're naked. Tell him you're unhappy now? Can't even get some decent money?

The third question, in what capacity?

(1) predecessor

You don't want to sit in the strange eyes of a mess of people and eat a wedding cake, do you? Then, an outspoken person asked: Are you A's ex-girlfriend? How did you break up? How are you getting along now? do you have some contacts?

(2) friends

Are you kidding? Do you think those messy people's information is so closed? I don't know the existence of my predecessor? There will still be a person who bluntly asks: You should be A's ex-girlfriend, right? How did you break up? How are you getting along now? do you have some contacts?

The fourth question, what is the state?

(1) single

I guess you don't want to see your ex-boyfriend and current girlfriend look arrogant like a bad sister with glass shoes, and you may pretend to be caring and attentive: why don't you find one? Do you want me to help you find one?

(2) Love

An adjective "pretend" should be added. Yes, you pretend to have someone. Is it ridiculous to go to your ex's wedding and pretend someone is demonstrating? Or are you pretending to be okay to prove yourself?

The fifth question, is it really from him?

(1) No.

Could it be one of those great girlfriends? In order to find out whether the relationship between you and him has broken down, if you intervene, have you ever thought about different life segments that are not calm?

(2) Yes

In what state of mind did he send this message? Want me to show off his life at his wedding? Comfort me with single dog's sadness? Or are you curious to see how I'm doing? But why should I pay for his mentality?

Put down the pen, rubbed his temples, and finally finished analyzing the situation.

I decided not to go.

You must ask, what if you don't go? Stop analyzing.

I seem to have figured it out, an ex-boyfriend who is still embarrassing you, embarrassing you and not thinking about you after breaking up for three years. Why do you have to embarrass yourself, do it yourself, and think about him?

Re-take out the phone, information, upper right corner, delete.

A beautiful day has begun. I have to decide whether to drink milk tea or coffee.

Many times we actually know what choice we want. When you don't know, just think about what result you want, or flip a coin. The result you want at the moment it lands is your choice.