The girl asked me: Is there a day when you didn't answer my phone or return my text messages, so you just disappeared quietly? I hesitated for a long time and answered no!

Your friend is obviously an insecure girl. Her insecurity comes from many aspects, such as the family environment when she was a child and the experience of being abandoned by her parents. What's more, as you said, her emotional experience in high school was a blow, which made her feel insecure, afraid of losing and being abandoned, just like a person who can't swim, afraid of drowning at any time.

If you really love her and plan to stay with her until graduation or even get married in the future, then you should not be afraid of rejection. She is afraid of losing you because she loves you. After everything she's done with you, she's still not sure about your relationship. I hope you can keep your enthusiasm for her now. If your enthusiasm continues, she will feel safe.

If you just like her without thinking about the future, you can just tell her that you love her now. If she loves you, you are together. Don't think so much. Instead of worrying about losing it in the future, it is better to cherish the present feelings. No one can say for sure about the future. Don't give up today's beauty for tomorrow's loss.

You should be prepared to be with such a person, because she is the kind of person who will often ask, "Do you love me?" Dear woman, because she is insecure, she will get your approval in her own way, and the approval of this relationship. If you have patience and confidence to persevere with her, take good care of her. If you are not mentally prepared, let your relationship remain a friend.

If you fail again, you can try to care for her silently, and one day she will be moved by you!