Why don't I answer you sometimes?

I saw an article on WeChat called "Responding to others is an education", but sometimes I really don't want to reply. If I don't reply to this matter, it really has something to do with my education, then I just have no education. (Yes, it is so capricious. )

For this matter, it seems that there is no direct connection with education, but there is still. If you send a message to check business such as work, the other party is brushing a circle of friends instead of replying. Maybe it really has something to do with upbringing. But not everyone is busy looking for you. So sometimes I really don't want to come back to you.

1, whether it's seconds or something, let me wait.

A while ago, when I was reciting words, I saw several voices from my friend H as soon as I entered WeChat, and I immediately listened to her voice. The background is noisy music with other people's songs in it. She should be in KTV and other places.

"It's so late, haven't you gone back yet?" Put down the book and reply to her. After waiting for more than ten minutes, there was no reply. Maybe I didn't bring my cell phone or didn't look at it. I continued to remember words, and my mobile phone stayed on the WeChat page. After a while, I heard her voice, or the voice of others singing. I replied, "Are you all friends who play together?" But the second time, I waited for a long time and there was no reply. I thought, maybe she just turned on her voice by accident.

After going back and forth countless times, I replied "busy" and quit WeChat.

Maybe she really has time to talk again, but I don't want to talk or wait for a reply in the long anxiety.

We all have our own things to do, and no one just stares at the mobile phone every day. I understand your delay in replying, but it doesn't mean you can understand that there is always a second return or a long wait. Anyone who takes the initiative for a long time will be tired, even if he waits.

If you are busy and have no time, please contact again when you have time. If you don't send a message, it will never disappear. Come to think of it and then reply. Do you know how long I have been waiting? I will be tired.

We are far apart, relying on instant chat tools to maintain that weak feeling, waiting will only slowly consume, so that we no longer have the impulse to reply in time and gradually become familiar strangers.

2, voice message, low efficiency

My brother and I chat. When two people are chatting, he will send me a long voice, which may be the voice of my uncle, aunt or aunt, or there may be no voice. What he says is always only a second or two at the end. I asked him if he was busy and did he want to do his homework. He said nothing. He also said that he was chatting with me, but was this chat really good? Whoever wants to listen to a long speech and hasn't spoken yet, let him type. If it really doesn't work, just perfunctory words and stop talking.

When I talked to him later, I always chose voice calls instead of listening to blank voices. When two people have something to say, they have nothing to say, and then they hang up. Convenient and easy.

The convenience of WeChat voice allows many idle people to communicate with others anytime and anywhere, but the voice has no function of a progress bar, so you have to hear the end of each voice from the beginning. If you are accidentally interrupted by people around you while listening to the sound, it means that you have to listen to it from the beginning, maybe just those one or two sentences, or even just a few interrupted words, and you have to listen again.

We receive text messages and voice messages in different ways. For 90% of us, we can remember almost the same thing by reading a long text, but it is easy to forget the front after listening to a long speech, and we need to listen to it several times.

If you encounter content that needs to be forwarded to others at work, voice is even more troublesome. First, voice cannot be directly forwarded. Second, to convert pronunciation into words, you have to listen carefully to check the words. This is undoubtedly not an obstacle to voice communication.

3, mass messaging, just convenient.

Wechat voting, friends circle praise, all kinds of holiday wishes, cold weather or greetings in the morning and evening, WeChat cleaning up ... It seems that we are all used to WeChat group sending.

I received WeChat two days ago: "Why can't the phone get through?" . I think: the phone is disconnected. How to answer the phone in the morning? Besides, you don't have my phone number. How could you call me? When I clicked in, I saw a group of WeChat about cold weather and keeping warm. On this day, I received more than four such group messages, and he also received three or four different group messages. To tell you the truth, I was impulsive, too. Because of my understanding, I silently retired from WeChat.

In this era full of routines, there is really no need for routines, and mass sending will only make people unhappy. If you want to care about someone, you can type a few words and send them yourself, which is definitely more sincere than mass sending. It's better to worry about your poor compilation than to send it in groups at a glance. In the era of mass sending, you will receive different mass sending every day. Do you think it will make you feel better if you send it in groups?

Holiday blessing was originally a particularly beautiful thing, but it has evolved into the all-selection function and one-click all-sending in WeChat, and has become a group refuge.

Furthermore, is mass blessing really for everyone to send holiday wishes, or is it a follow-up behavior or even an idle pastime that others are sending? Do you expect to reply to those people you sent in groups?

During the Mid-Autumn Festival, I wrote lyrics all day. Turn on your mobile phone at night and see dozens of blessings in groups. Thinking that everyone has a unique reply and wants to be lazy, I choose to send it in groups. "Why do you send it at night?" The friend said. "I just saw that I didn't look at my mobile phone today."

"In fact, you don't have to send it. Several of them have really thought about others. " Hearing this, I felt very bitter at that time. The original sender didn't expect to receive a reply, but I took it seriously.

There is also a group of people who always like to ask "Are you there" but never see the following. Sometimes they think, do you want your "Are you there" or "Are you not there"? In fact, if you ask again, you can send me what you want to say, and I will reply to you when I see it, instead of seeing you asking "Are you there?" "Are you there?" "Are you there?" Asking too many questions will only make you don't want to reply to you, instead of waiting to reply to you.

So, sometimes I really don't want to reply to you, even if you call me ill-bred, I still don't want to reply to you.