Friends who never return to WeChat, do you want to blacken?

Everyone's WeChat friends always have a friend who can't reply to the message in time. Sometimes they send messages for a long time, but there is no sound. The taste of waiting is really hard. I can't wait to ask questions by phone. Why didn't you reply to my message? But there is nothing to think about, just chatting, so I have to endure it.

Yes, I used to be the one who never replied to other people's messages in time. Yes, don't worry, forget it, brush your circle of friends again, and then forget to reply. After watching it for a long time, do you think it's too late to be scolded so late? It's not important. Forget it. I'm not going back to S.

I thought it didn't matter, until one day, many friends suddenly appeared to break up with me, and I realized that this attitude and practice of not being able to read back was really not enough friends. I can at least do it without friends in my eyes.

I remember when I first joined the work, I met an enthusiastic little girl who wanted to do everything and took me with her. Soon we became good friends. You see, we talked about the handsome guy's good looks, and talked about which little beauty's makeup looks match each other. Unexpectedly, this intimate relationship ended because of a phone call.

She texted me the other day and asked me to call her back as soon as I saw it. It was 7 o'clock in the morning, so it was inconvenient to squeeze the subway to the company. I thought I would reply to her when I got to the company and call her back when I got to the company. The first thing she asked was: Did you just read my message? I said that after watching it for a while, the subway was inconvenient, so I thought I would call you back when I got to the company. I didn't say anything specific. We had a few words and then hung up.

As a result, I chatted with her on WeChat and found that it had been deleted.

My first reaction at that time was that she deleted me because I didn't reply to her message the first time. Maybe she thinks she doesn't care about me enough, or she's not important enough. In fact, although I was hacked at that time, I admired her decisive character. Although she refused or killed me by mistake, a girl with such principles must have friends who really love her and always put her first.

At that time, I was hesitant to make a decision. Even if I am treated unreasonably and neglected to death, I will not refuse to leave. I just sigh alone and feel unimportant. Sometimes people I care about don't return messages, so I will wait or call directly to ask questions. But later, I felt that it was very unstable and there was nothing particularly important. I don't want the other party to reply to WeChat at any time, so I won't call.

But every time I look at WeChat, which hasn't been replied, I will repeatedly think about my relationship with this friend. Why doesn't he use WeChat himself? Is he really busy, or hasn't had time to reply, or hasn't figured out how to reply, or doesn't know how to reply, but for whatever reason, when a person talks to you through the screen, don't you know that the other person is waiting for your reply? Even if you really don't know how to reply, the questions asked in the chat and the information replied are two different things. Even if you are busy now, you can reply later, or when you think about it. At least let the other person know that you have seen it, so that the other person can feel at ease. Don't always guess anxiously whether you have seen WeChat or not.

Chatting on WeChat often, you will find how cute the person who replies to your WeChat in one second is. You will feel cared for and cared for, and there will be a response every time you speak. No matter how important the other person is to you, you may not have the courage to send him a message again. We don't want to face the disappointment of not responding.

In fact, whether the other party will call you back or not, your relationship should be clear in your heart. Whether the topic you throw is his favorite or not, what he wants to say at least proves that he doesn't care about your feelings of not being answered. Sometimes, not replying is also a reply.

Never respond to your friends when you need them. It is better to unplug it, so as not to think of him every time you need it and experience disappointment again.

If you have such a friend on WeChat, the other party has never taken the initiative to find you, but you always want to chat with the other party, and the other party doesn't reply to you very much. Telling the truth and blackening it as soon as possible, the benign relationship must be interactive. And your relationship is wishful thinking. Didn't you save it for the Spring Festival?