What should I do if my boyfriend and female colleagues owe him money?

I think as his girlfriend, you should urge him to get the money back from his female colleagues as soon as possible.

Your boyfriend must be embarrassed to ask her for money because of his colleague's face, but if the amount is huge and she doesn't pay it back, it will be a huge loss to your family, and it may also cause emotional discord between you and your boyfriend, so there are several ways to help your boyfriend get the money back skillfully.

1, beat about the bush

Every time a boyfriend meets a colleague, you can let him implicitly express that there are some difficulties at home recently, and he urgently needs money to ease his expenses, and ask his colleague what good ways to help him; If his colleague has nothing to say, then she is pretending to sleep. She is determined not to pay back the money and can go straight to the next step.

Step 2 face the problem

Ask your boyfriend to pay back the money as soon as he sees his colleague. His colleagues don't want to pay back the money. You have to force her to pay back the money in this way. In this case, most people will consider the pressure of public opinion and choose the option of paying back the money. But there will be a few thick-skinned people who are still indifferent. This is something you can't do with her. In the end, you can only solve the problem through litigation.

3. Solve the problem through litigation.

Although litigation can finally solve the problem, it also has some shortcomings.

First, the cost is high: you need to go to court to sue, and you have to pay legal fees at this time. If we hire a lawyer, we will also spend the lawyer's fee. Not only money, but also more time, time and money are needed to go to court for prosecution.

Second, it is inefficient: after we go to court for prosecution, the court will notify the debtor and need to arrange a court session. If the whole process is fast, it can be judged in the first instance in two or three months, and if it is slow, it may be extended to about one year.

Third, there are unknowns in execution: can the debtor find it? Is there any property available for execution after finding it? These problems are unknown, and the court cannot guarantee the implementation in place.

Therefore, if you want to pay the bill, try to mediate with the other party, which is a good choice for both parties.