Why do girls always reply to your messages in seconds?

Many brothers will encounter such a situation when chatting with girls: every time they chat with girls, she will reply in seconds, but girls never talk to themselves, not once. Then I will say to myself, why is this? Why does she reply to messages every second, but she doesn't take the initiative to find me? Have you ever been in this situation? Today we will analyze the reasons for this problem, and interested brothers will come with me to have a look.

1, reserved

In fact, for girls, when chatting with you, she usually doesn't take the initiative to send you messages, because they are quite passive emotionally. Unless this girl likes what you like, she will send you a message on her own initiative. So in this case, her psychology is like this. I like a boy, but I won't take the initiative to chat with him. If he sends me a message, I will definitely call back.

Then why don't girls come to you? Actually, I'm afraid that being too active will make boys feel fall in price. So out of this psychology, no matter how much a girl likes you, she will not take the initiative, but likes to accept you passively.

In fact, this is also because most girls are reserved and dare not show too much attitude towards the people they like. However, they will cooperate with the initiative of boys. For example, if you send a message, she will reply every second. I will also agree to your date, and so on. So, brother, if you like this shy girl, don't give up just because the girl never takes the initiative to find you. You can judge whether she is interested in you by the time and content of her reply to your WeChat.

2. A purely polite answer

Some girls never take the initiative to find you, but what does WeChat know? Maybe they are idle, often look at their mobile phones, see your news, and will subconsciously reply to you out of courtesy. Some brothers may want to ask, so how do you judge whether a girl is like this?

Actually, it's very simple. Just look at the content and frequency of her seconds. If when chatting, you are basically talking alone, and she only gives you a short reply, or a reply like uh-huh, oh-huh, and there is nothing substantial, then you may have to pay attention. She is not interested in you, and WeChat replies to you only out of courtesy.

But it doesn't matter much. If you like her, then you need to find ways to change your present situation, such as improving your value and attracting her. How to attract? I won't say much about this. You can read my column or trust me privately.

What about the above two situations? This is one of the reasons why girls don't take the initiative to find you, but return messages every second. In fact, in any case, it is a good phenomenon for a girl to call you back once every second without contacting you actively. After all, if a girl is willing to reply to you, it means that you still have a chance to get to know each other better. As for her not taking the initiative to find you, she will take the initiative when your relationship is stable.