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What if parents don't agree to get married?

In fact, in the matter of feelings, it is only a matter of two people, and it has little to do with parents. Their attitude is just a reference. After all, after marriage, two people will live together, not with their parents, so even if their parents don't agree to this marriage, it won't have much impact on their feelings.

But the marriage that can get parents' blessing is naturally the best. After all, with the support of parents, even if there is any contradiction between the two people in the future, there is still a way out. If the relationship with your parents is very stiff because of marriage, then you will be really lonely after marriage. Even if you are wronged in the future, you can only bear it silently, because even if you tell your parents, they will think you deserve it. Who told you not to listen to them at first?

In fact, whether it's parents' psychology or couples' psychology, I will understand it more or less. From the perspective of a couple, I will feel that I have finally met someone I really like. At this time, no matter who can stop the footsteps of two people together, I will be blinded by love at this time and will only see the benefits of each other. Those shortcomings are completely absent in your eyes. But from your parents' point of view, you will think longer. No parents will hurt their children. Besides, they have experienced a lot. They know at a glance whether this person is suitable for their children. They stopped the marriage because they didn't want their children to regret it later.

Therefore, when parents object to their marriage, you can find a suitable opportunity to sit down with your parents and talk about it and ask them what the reason is. After all, marriage is not a child's play and needs special attention. Besides, parents have been through a lot, so you can't say that you must listen to them, but at least you can refer to them.