After remarriage, I feel that I am not as good as my ex-husband, and my ex-husband also has the intention of getting back together. What should I do?

I suggest you don't remarry. You won't know the original good until you are separated, but to be honest, you are an unreliable person. If life is dull after remarriage, you will make waves again. Now that you have chosen, you must continue. Can my ex still have you? What man would be so generous?

Xie Wukong invited: I also have a few friends around me who feel this way after remarriage, which fully explains several problems: first, some people don't fully understand their predecessors, and second, they make decisions too hastily and handle divorce too casually and not rigorously. In real life, before making any decision between husband and wife, it is like crossing the road: it depends on whether there is a motor vehicle that endangers personal safety; Second, slow down and don't go ahead blindly. You will always be eager for quick success and give up halfway. Marriage involves the most energy and effort in one's life. If it is not handled well, it will hurt not only couples, but also children, parents, brothers and sisters and clan relatives.

There is nothing wrong with anyone pursuing happiness, but only if you build love and marriage on money or feelings. The subject asked for a divorce because his predecessor had little income. Obviously, he put money first. Nowadays, many people earn about 3,000 yuan a month, and only a few people earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. After all, there are still a few divorces because of low income.

Marriage can't cast a shadow over the feelings between husband and wife because of the level of income, and get a copper smell. However, at present, this kind of copper odor does not simply occur in a certain area or someone, but is universal and getting worse.

Real couples care about each other and can share joys and sorrows, instead of forgetting their interests and betraying their faith. Husband and wife get along by feelings, and money only accounts for part of marriage. As long as the spirit of husband and wife Qi Xin does not decline, the solution is always more difficult than it is. This is also the unchangeable truth.

As for whether you and your ex-husband remarry, the key depends on who has the correct "three views", who has a great influence on your life and who will bring greater enjoyment to your spiritual and material life. Some people say that money is not everything, but in this commodity society, no money is absolutely impossible. Sometimes, after all, you can't have your cake and eat it, and you need to make a decision to give up what you want at a critical time. You are really good enough. You didn't cherish each other when you were with your ex-husband. However, you have a bad life after divorce, and on the other hand, you think it's better to be your ex-husband.

You stay with your ex-husband because you dislike his lack of money and low salary, but at least his ex-husband knows how to love you, treat you well and cherish you!

You met your current husband at a cocktail party. Just because of his high salary and better conditions than his ex-husband, he simply divorced and married his current husband. Now he has said that he is unhappy, and the current husband is not good to you. He often drinks and is surrounded by beautiful women. Can I say that you are not so realistic? You want to be friends with anyone who has money, so you hit a brick wall.

I didn't know until my divorce. Not that I can live happily with a little money, but I want you to know. Happiness is having someone who thinks of you in his heart and knows how to love you. Even if he is not as capable as other men, he is willing to regard you as his favorite woman.

Conclusion: To be honest, if you really regret it, it is ok to get back together with your ex-husband now. As long as your ex-husband has no other woman and he intends to get back together with you, then go to your ex-husband and you are still together. Be more kind to your ex-husband and cherish each other in the future. When two people are together, no matter how much money they have, as long as they are happy every day, this is the best happiness.

To tell the truth, I am very entangled in this question and I am speechless. I always feel hot and ashamed. It is estimated that the words are incoherent and will not be outspoken.

Answer: I feel as if I am using "bad" ideas to help people out and indulge a vulgar and bottomless ignorant. I am very uneasy. Therefore, I can only send one sentence: You'd better look in the mirror more often and ask yourself, maybe you will know what to do.

Although marriage is free now, we can't regard marriage as a drama, divorce or divorce. Doing so does not respect the marriage law, but also wastes the public resources of the country, takes up the precious time of the state staff, serves you repeatedly, and goes through the formalities repeatedly. If you really need convenience, you'd better not register, although you can live together freely, fight freely and have sex freely. I really don't know what kind of mentality this is. Abandoning ethics, treating human feelings, affection and love as nothing, under the guise of freedom of marriage, is extremely selfish, self-centered and bohemian. At the same time, it is blatant, deceitful, ignorant and shameless, and even the last layer of fig leaf is disdainful and divided.

Is this the so-called freedom of marriage? Or maybe it's behind the times. Because, many things have changed, they have an elegant name: lover, cheating, called cheating; Fighting in private, sexual intercourse, called cohabitation; Breaking up, betraying, is called cheating. As for true love and confidant, this powder and that powder are even more incomprehensible! Alas! I really don't know whether this trend is evil, fashion or trend. Anyway, I don't feel so comfortable inside!

Leave if you want to get married. Do you take marriage seriously? People often say that people who have been divorced once are more mature and know how to cherish their feelings. It seems that you haven't learned from your failed marriage, and you are still so ignorant when you grow up. Don't you understand that a good horse doesn't go back to grass? If you are happy with your ex-husband, will you divorce? Can remarriage be happy? A wise man knows everything, but a fool will never understand. A beautiful vase is broken, and the perfection of re-bonding is also printed on it. There are shadows in remarriage, and I don't know when it will collapse again. If you think remarriage can make you happy, you can do it, choose your own path and bear the good and the bad. ...

Are you sure you want to go back to your ex-husband and live a tight life, and you won't dislike his inability to give you a good material life? If you want to have it both ways, I suggest you live with your present job. Everything has two sides, there are gains and losses, depending on how you give up and cherish that side.

Women want to live a good life and pin their hopes on men. It is better to work hard on your own, and your own talents are reliable, and your marriage needs to be managed well. If they are not satisfied, they will choose divorce and never find happiness! Marriage is no joke. Be careful.

To sum up your situation, when you were with your ex, you felt that his salary was low and his life was bitter. You are disappointed. You are enjoying your happiness now, but he is rich and doesn't care about people.

There are too many TV dramas and romantic plots, and the world is not perfect.

First of all, your predecessor, you have high expectations, and you look down on him. This is not on a balance line. Is to remarry, can you stand his salary of three thousand yuan? Poor people who eat bran and swallow vegetables? There is also a remarried man who cares about a woman's past. If both of them are single, that's fine. When a woman gets married, a man always has a thorn in his heart. I have examples of remarriage around me, and finally divorced. Besides, you and your ex haven't had children yet. What do you take as a partner?

Besides, the incumbent, when you met him, was at a cocktail party. He prefers occasions. Can achieve middle management, big companies, high wages and good benefits, occasions definitely need entertainment. I am too busy to take care of you! Behind many career men, there is a lonely woman. If you want to enjoy it, you have to endure the price of loneliness. You want him by your side every day. Isn't he motivated? How can you stay tall without socializing? You gain something, you lose something.

Even if you can't get along with your current job and get divorced, don't rush to remarry your ex. First, wake up and know what your beloved family really wants. 30 is not big, you don't understand, you will still face many problems in the future. After all, it's a long way to go in Xiu Yuan. . . . . .

The topic is an unwise woman who sees advantages before marriage and finds disadvantages after marriage. You won't be happy unless you change your thinking and reflect on your mistakes.

What you said about your ex-husband's low salary and no progress was only after marriage? What were you doing before marriage? Did you get married without even knowing the most basic information? If so, then you are brain-dead. If not, you find the importance of money after marriage, then you should persuade your husband to make money with him. Making money is not my husband's specialty, but you are also involved. You abandoned your husband and climbed a higher branch to make more money, ignoring his kindness to you. You can't live if you commit a crime.

You should be satisfied with the husband you chose to make more money, and you also found that he is not worthy of you. I want to go back to my ex-husband In your eyes, marriage is similar to playing house. In fact, you are not suitable for marriage, only suitable for trial marriage, just try, because your thinking like this will not last with anyone. It saves the trouble of divorce and harms others and yourself.

You don't know the life you want, you don't know your position, you can't carry it anywhere, and you are really speechless. You can only see the shortcomings of others, but you can't see your own shortcomings. People like you are the best, too. It's really hard to get. I only hope you can reflect on my words, grasp yourself now, and wish you an early awakening!

I can't.

You are only thirty years old, and you have been married twice. Don't get divorced again. If you get divorced again, you will get married three times.

Your first marriage was very happy. Your ex-husband has a good work unit and a stable job. Although the salary is not very high, he cares about you, loves you, and even holds you as a treasure in his hand. But you were not satisfied, so you abandoned him and threw him away. You have foolishly ruined that precious first marriage and deeply hurt your ex-husband.

What is this?

What made you ruin your precious first marriage? It's your snobbery. You only see power and interests.

People often say snobbery is very common. Although it looks so ordinary and low-key, it seems that many people have it, but like two leaves covering their eyes, it is easy to block all the sights except power and interests, and they can't see all the kindness, gentleness, harmony and auspiciousness. ...

Don't look back.

If you always think about your ex-husband, you are unfaithful and disrespectful to your second husband. No wonder he won't be home all day and doesn't care about you.

You can't always think about the present and the past. You should respect your present husband, he is the person you wanted in the past. You should cherish your present husband, forget your ex-husband, forget the past and enjoy your present life again. You are still young. Have a baby quickly. Your first marriage has failed, so don't let your second marriage fail now. You have to believe that even a second marriage will be good.

He is 30 years old and should have a "brain"! Because your ex-husband earned only 3000 yuan and didn't want to make progress, you abandoned him and divorced him without hesitation. Did you cherish him then? His concern for you is nothing in your eyes.

Just because the other person's salary is high, more than 10 thousand a month, and there are many benefits, you will divorce your ex-husband without hesitation and become his wife now. At this time you dislike him and don't love you at all.

I don't think you have seen much money. Just because the other person's monthly income is more than 10000, you can easily turn your husband with an original salary of only 3000 into an ex-husband. Suppose you have another chance to meet someone with a monthly salary of 30 thousand, will you never remember that your ex-husband actually cares about you?

Since you abandoned your ex-husband when he disliked his low salary, and now his salary is also low and he is unwilling to make progress, then you want to divorce and return to him, and want to remarry with him. Are you really willing to face him with only 3000 salary all your life? So, stop fooling yourself.

Please don't hurt an honest man again. No matter how poor his ability is and how low his salary is, there are girls who are suitable for him. Don't think that you are the only one who wants a divorce, and you want to remarry.

You are a 30-year-old man, and you are no longer a young man who is not sensible. Divorce and marriage are no joke. Since you remarried because he earned more than 10 thousand and had other good welfare benefits, in fact, you thought so at the beginning, so why pretend that people don't love you at all now It's all your own choice, no wonder anyone, but please don't treat marriage as a joke, and don't treat an ex-husband with "poor ability and low salary" as easy to get. After all, everyone has dignity. If you don't really love him, please don't treat him as the bottom. This is ... not authentic.

Good wishes!

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