How to deal with photo messages when breaking up?

How to deal with photo messages when breaking up?

Breaking up is really a sad thing, and how to deal with photo information when breaking up is a big problem.

I don't have the courage to spit out the despair when I think of breaking up, whether it's diaosi, Gao Shuai's wealth or rich and beautiful soil. To put it simply, this user's guide is: What traces of love did you leave around after you broke up? Your mobile phone, your hard disk (definitely refers to movies, TV series, albums ...), your email inbox. These are all things you cared about before and still care about now. These things made you sad once, but you still want to keep them. What should you do at this time?

In the highly industrialized country of the United States (in fact, it is almost everywhere), it is impossible to say a basin without leaving a large number of digital/internet records. You will have an instant messaging chat record with your sister; There will be photos of my sister on facebook and everyone, and maybe both of them have been circled; As a literary youth, your SLR is also full of girlish feelings; When you and your sister first met, you exchanged emails and bean mails; Wechat record; Tencent chat screenshot; Text messages? That's too much. Your first reaction should be to delete them all.

Don't be embarrassed, everyone will want to do this, right? Of course you don't want to stare at the photo with ex? Lick the wound in the dark? After that (although it's really hard, I still can't help but vomit ...), you don't want to read the text messages sent before, exchange small expressions, and then outline the beautiful image of ex. When this happens, people will be more sensitive and fragile than usual, and we live in an era of information explosion. For example, to sprinkle salt on a wound, there is much more salt in modern times than in the past. It's really everywhere, and there are only a handful at once. Is it really hard to get through this painful time? But we still have to try.

wait for

Wait a month. Maybe longer. When you can sit in front of the computer and calmly look at her Facebook, Weibo and Twitter, you won't feel sad, and this won't happen in your heart? I'm going to smash the fucking computer? When you are impulsive. When breaking up is like yesterday to you, it may take you more than a century. But you may be a little brain-dead and hysterical during this time, so don't make any major wrong decisions because you are out of control, such as setting your ex's things on fire. Do you remember the story of Ru Ping? She was fragile and collapsed, and braved the heavy rain to light curtains in the bedroom and burn photos. This is really a lesson of blood. Besides, don't really drop your computer and just watch. I swear on my life that you will regret it.

draw

Don't delete it, really Otherwise, you will regret it later. This is not because you still have the possibility to make up, and then you will be glad that you didn't delete them when you make up. After a serious breakup, under normal circumstances, the two will not get back together. But these photos not only represent a failed love, they are also wonderful moments in your life (# AD? ...). They are recorded and never fade. These photos are not just. I miss you so much. Her smile? ,? I wish I could see her. Give me another smile? ,? I can't take it anymore. I'd better go for a drink. This is the past moment when someone else pressed the shutter. Your Wang Xingren, your apartment, your hairstyle at that time, your wonderful holiday, your job, your old bike? Too many things belong to you, no matter who your girlfriend is. In a few years, ten years and twenty years, these photos will become your precious memories. Don't be so reckless and reckless. You are not as fragile as you think.

The correct approach should be: skip them. Save these photos that you don't want to see for the time being in the backup system, or find a mobile hard disk, paste them all, and then delete them from the computer. You can hide this hard disk in your sock drawer, put it under the bed, or give it to your friends for safekeeping (remember to keep it secret). In short, put it where it won't attract much attention. But when you are ready, you will turn them out and look at yourself in the past. Don't ruin your memory because of temporary sadness.

Playlist

Deleted. These playlists will only arouse your sadness and make all your favorite songs go bad. Remember, you know very well that you made this playlist for ex? Cut out the audio files yourself and arrange the songs that you both like in the order you like. The purpose is to make your ex happy, remind her of you when she is outside, and let her want to play with you when she is around you. This simple MP3 music can only make you fall into memories of the past. So let's delete it. But leave the songs you like.

e-mail

E-mails may sound old-fashioned, but they are not as simple as text messages. But think carefully about the situations where you don't need text messages: long letters written to you from abroad, long emails on the trip, emails with attachments, shy emails expressing ideas, and farewell letters. Don't read them one by one, file them all. Find out all her/his emails, select them all, and then pack them into a separate folder. Remember: these emails are an important part of your life. Long after breaking up, you may never remember some details of the past, and these emails can help you at that time.

Text message

Text messages are only bad for you, not good for you. Delete all the important information you remember that has nothing to do with ex.

Social network

Below are your tags and photos on social networks such as facebook, Renren and Weibo. These things are simply shortcuts to depression. Think rationally, what percentage of your friends, neighbors, followers, etc. Do you think you are a spoony man when you see the photos of you and ex? If you have a new love in the future (not surprisingly, you will all have it), how will it feel if your new love sees that your social network is full of memories with ex?

Whether it's those circled photos or something. Download them, choose the same treatment as photos and save them.

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