I met him when I was a child. He is my great-uncle's nephew. I'm in college now. He is in the army. In February of this year, he and I ...

In February this year, he confessed that you fell in love with him in March, and then he immediately changed his mind and broke up within a month.

This question is clear at a glance. You are so frivolous and crazy that he sees some hidden dangers and inappropriate places.

1. People have been observing you for three years. But I just didn't take a step forward directly, so I didn't understand your sincerity, so I liked it. Just an external pursuit.

2. You were flattered after the confession, so after the lightning storm, you inadvertently exposed all your weaknesses and inner personality, making him vaguely feel the impetuousness and immaturity of a girl. Differences in temper and personality will bring hidden dangers to future marriages.

He said that the relationship is too close, which may include family interference. After all, there is a little blood relationship, which is taboo in traditional concepts. When he asks his parents for advice, his parents or relatives may think it is inappropriate. Then the elders get to know each other. Maybe his parents already know about you.

People's feelings and love are based on long-term life, and they fell in love with him within a month, and it was a long-distance love, so that they could not be separated. Obviously, hormonal impulse thinking has affected your so-called "love". You haven't contacted him for a long time. There are hundreds and thousands of "I love you" on the phone. Can you guarantee that it will remain the same for life? If so, ask some young men to call you every day and say 10 thousand "I love you" I'm afraid you will fall in love with everyone.

Finally, you must have scared him, thinking that you are frivolous and love casually and quickly. Then the future will go quickly, let go quickly and leave quickly.

A girl should be reserved and not too impetuous. Too much fanaticism will scare away men, especially men with orthodox education.