Being cheated by her husband, the stewardess's wife was suspended, which deserved it. Why did she sue her husband?

Because the stewardess's wife insisted that she didn't cheat, she was wronged by her husband, and thought that her husband's slander caused her to be suspended, which was equal to her husband's violation of her rights and interests, so she filed an infringement complaint against her husband.

What happened?

It happened to a young couple in Changsha. Her husband Yang found that his stewardess wife Li had a very ambiguous chat record with a heterosexual, so he decided that Li had cheated and betrayed himself.

However, after Yang found out, it was not the first time to quarrel with Li. Instead, I sent a screenshot of the chat record to the family chat group. Later, Yang also filed a complaint with Li's unit. As a result, Li was not only accused by relatives and friends, but also stopped by the unit.

Li insisted that he was not cheating, and felt that her husband just slandered himself with chat records and simply took Yang to court.

The subsequent development of the matter is that after hearing the case, Changsha Intermediate People's Court thought that Yang's behavior was unreasonable, although it did not reach the level of infringement, so he criticized and educated Yang.

After the farce, how do couples face it?

To tell the truth, after this ordeal, can the couple go back to the past?

Although it is said that couples will quarrel more or less, they usually quarrel for trivial matters of life. No matter how fierce the quarrel is, it has nothing to do with personality and will not affect each other's work. So, after the quarrel, it's over.

However, this farce like Yang He's is different from the quarrel between ordinary couples. First of all, after Yang's story spread, relatives, friends and colleagues all decided that Li was suspected of cheating. Even if Li refuted afterwards, Yang couldn't get more favorable evidence, but after all, he left such suspicion to outsiders.

It is estimated that Li's character will always be questioned in front of relatives, friends and colleagues in the future, and even become a joke after dinner.

Moreover, even after the incident, Li's work was restored, but this process also lost a lot of benefits, and it is likely to affect the future promotion and salary increase, which really has a great impact on Li's career development.

Finally, and most importantly, the feelings between husband and wife, you spread my infidelity, I sue you for infringement. How should the couple face when they come home again?

Emotional problems were not built in a day.

In fact, judging from the incident, the emotional problems between Yang and Li should not last for a day or two. Why do you say that?

1. Why did you find his wife's chat record? This proves that Yang has the habit of checking Li's mobile phone. However, when the husband has this habit, it proves that he has doubts about his wife.

2. It is said that it is a shame to wash one's dirty linen in public, but when Yang found Li's embarrassing chat records, he did not have a collapse confrontation with Li Jinxing, but chose to spread and accuse, with the intention of discrediting Li. Yang's performance, as if Li cheated in his expectation, is like a hunter waiting for prey, and the chat record is Yang's prey.

3. Li just insisted that he didn't have an affair with the opposite sex, but didn't try to prove his innocence and get rid of Yang's misunderstanding of himself. Instead, he confronted Yang. You slander me, I sue you. Obviously, Li didn't feel the need to reflect on himself and the opposite sex.

It can be said that a quarrel, a marriage and a relationship are all caused by two people, and problems are often caused by two people.

How to face your partner's infidelity

How to face your partner's infidelity? I believe this is a very painful and self-respecting question. Emotion is a sweet thing. However, if you suspect that your partner is cheating after a long journey, or get evidence that your partner is suspected of cheating, what should you do at this time?

Of course, you can't face it like Yang, because even if your feelings are impacted, you can't use this extreme way, which will only embarrass the other party, and it is difficult to end it and recover it. So, let's calm down and think about three questions:

1, is the other party really cheating?

2. Do you still love each other?

3. If the other person really cheated, can you forgive yourself, or can you accept losing the other person?

If you suspect that your partner is cheating, you can calmly think about these three questions first. I believe that when you face them again, your attitude and handling method will be more rational, civilized and cautious. No matter what the final outcome is, at least it won't make each other and this relationship too embarrassed.

Finally, I also advise those people like Li, whether they are husbands or wives, if they feel that they have no feelings for the other half, they should also uphold their responsibilities for marriage, their partners and themselves, and work hard to find their former love, instead of being ambiguous with the opposite sex as a non-single person.

Marriage needs to be based on love, loyalty as the bottom line and respect as the way to get along. Without these, it's hard to get back the love.