What secrets do women want to know most about men?

1. When she loses her temper, she wants you to pay more attention to her, which seems counterintuitive, but when she starts to scold you, what she really wants is you to kiss her and tell her that you love her. And when she ignores you, you should pay more attention to her. Forgiveness, sweetness and sweet romance can heal fights, quarrels and differences, not cold silence.

The way you write "I love you" is very important. It seems difficult for men in China to say the words "I love you". If they can't say it, it's ok to send text messages. The words "I love you" are very destructive to girls. When the relationship between men and women develops to a certain extent, sometimes it is prudent to say "because I love you". Sometimes she says "I love you" and you just say "love you 2", which is wrong. Similarly, if she sends a text message "I love you", then you write "I love you 2" back to her message. Although this may seem like a tiny detail, if you really want to show her that you love her, don't be stingy with all the words and pronouns, and don't include any numbers and characters like "2", you can say "Dear, I love you too! " .

3. Their sensitivity is innate, and girls are sometimes very sensitive-constantly bombarded by unrealistic and beautiful women's magazines and advertisements, movies and TV programs, billboards and fashion show pictures. When you interact with other girls around you, it is very likely that she will have a lot of ideas in her mind, followed by "Uh-oh ...". They don't mean that you should give up the dialogue with the female species, but what they want to say is that it is sensitive, and she does have such concerns naturally. In most cases, if you tell the truth, she will be happy to give you a good side. Her insecurity is a valid feeling. Don't accuse her of "thinking too much, making something out of nothing, ok!"

4. If you don't reply to their messages, they will worry that the messages are interesting, won't they? They occupy zero space in the physical world-they are weightless and tasteless, and you can use them indefinitely-don't feel meaningless, because girls care, and their secrets are full of meaning. Sure-"Wednesday morning 10 for lunch?" And "honey, what's the matter? Why don't you pick me up? " The meaning of the two sentences is different, but if you don't reply to the latter, the consequences will definitely be more serious than not replying to the former. We must admit that when you choose not to reply to your girlfriend's message, you are sending her a signal-they are not important, so as a gentleman, if she sends you a message, please reply (unless you are driving. )

Keeping a secret is a kind of deception. Two months ago, you added a lovely female classmate from high school to QQ, but you didn't tell your girlfriend. Similarly, your classmates praised you in some of your States, and you also praised her profile photos. Similarly, one day, when you started chatting with your classmates late into the night, you have regular heart-to-heart talks and chats now. Similarly, now you are planning to have a cup of coffee next week. Guess what will happen, my friend? You probably don't have to say anything about not crossing the line. You may not have kissed, touched or even fantasized about anything. But don't tell your girlfriend-because you know, she won't feel good when she knows. You may not cheat. -But you lied to her. The relationship of love is based on mutual trust, rather than selectively omitting some unpleasant things.

You'd better introduce her to your friends and let us imagine. You show up with your girlfriend. You've been together for months. You are her only boyfriend, and you two have established a relationship. Then, her good friend appeared at once, and she said, "Hello everyone! This is my friend, Xiao Ming. " Heartache, isn't it now? You should know what this is about. Are you ugly? What does this mean? Maybe you don't have enough money Did she demote you? You're just her little secret? Then, on the contrary, the reason is the same. You should introduce her to your good friend and introduce her as your girlfriend. If you are not 100% sure about your emotional state, it may be time to have a good talk with her-like a real adult.

7. Most girls don't care about money. For some people (rich or poor), there may be an assumption that girls are only interested in the rich, and the richer the better. Well, we won't lie: everything else is equally important and equal. It is very likely that an ordinary girl will like the super rich more than a homeless person. But just as you are interested in a girl, not only her bra size, but also your annual income, current assets, real estate assets (or lack thereof) are not necessarily important to her. If you are a girl's type, whether you have money or not, she will be interested in you. If she turns you down, it's probably not just because she thinks your bank account is faulty. Of course, if you are stingy and refuse to spend a dime on her, that is another matter. This has little to do with money, but it is more likely that you are not worth her time. This is just common sense. Money? Not necessarily.

8. When you are mean to her ... When you are in kindergarten, it is acceptable to make fun of, abuse and steal toys, which is no problem. But now, we are all adults, and it is absolutely impossible to slander, abuse and ridicule. We must be clear: we should be measured. There is a big difference between a naughty boy and a rude bastard. This is a question of pre-environment and taking good measures. The pre-environment is that she knows you, and your tone is not good enough. Do you know you're just kidding? Be careful, do you usually do well or speak well, or are you mean? If the answer is no, guess what she will say if you buy her a drink?

9. They don't shave their legs every day. Believe it or not, the descendants of human prehistoric ape-like creatures are all involved in body hair. When we grow up, pursue and own property, our bodies have no time to deal with all kinds of hair and illogical places. When you cut it short, it will grow back! Whatever the reason, the society and the mass media jointly told them not to have leg hair. Moreover, on the whole, they are polite, and we owe them a favor, especially considering that uncivilized fur covers our own legs. But you already know that women often don't shave their legs when they jump in the gym, because they don't have a convincing reason to do so.

10. Don't try to do something stupid to impress women. Men can impress women. But the problem is that what many men think can impress others is more likely to impress others. Swearing poison? Fight? Drinking? Stalking and beating? These may seem to make you look tough, and you may look like a character on TV, but in real life, no woman will accept such behavior. If you regard life as a huge boxing match to impress girls, you may be abandoned by them, because it won't touch their hearts.