How should women get out of the dilemma of extramarital affairs?

Women having extramarital affairs are generally caused by the following situations: First, they do not get the care they deserve from their husbands, and they feel wronged; second, the outside world is too wonderful and they are tempted; third, It’s the old house on fire and meeting true love. Let’s not talk about the third situation. How many people can meet true love in this life? If you really encounter it, it is not a dilemma, but happiness. You need to support it.

Since you think extramarital affairs are a dilemma, it means that you already understand the pros and cons. Obviously, the pros outweigh the cons. After the initial excitement and freshness, what awaits you is the difficult ending after the affair is exposed. If you don’t want to If you make your life difficult to deal with, it is best to escape as soon as possible.

First of all, we must understand that dullness is long-lasting. After a couple gets married, their emotions move towards a stable track. Many men are slow to express themselves, and the initial love between the two turns into a dull left-hand holding of the right hand. How many of the emotions between normal couples are as thrilling as in novels? Even if you have an extramarital affair, after the initial fresh excitement, it will still return to dullness. Ordinary feelings are like the three meals a day at home, even the big fish and meat, which you can’t stand. Vegetables, radishes, and simple meals are the foundation of health.

Secondly, you must understand what role you play in this relationship. Extramarital affairs are inherently shady and morally condemned. After you have enjoyed the fun, in the dead of night, ask yourself, do you not feel the slightest bit guilty about your children, your husband, and your family? If you don't feel that your family is really hopeless, you should get out of the marriage first and then look for the happiness you want instead of playing an immoral role in an extramarital affair.

Third, extramarital affairs affect not only emotions, but also career. Take celebrities, for example, Dong Jie, Ma Rong, and most recently Li Xiaolu. Who has not become the target of public criticism? They spread their family affairs in front of the public and let others comment on them. They have no privacy at all, which not only affects the family He and his children have also caused trouble for his career. If he wants to turn around, he may have to put in more effort.

A wise woman will not be trapped by extramarital affairs. It is wise to draw the sword of wisdom, cut off the love thread, and leave in time.