Does it take a second for your girlfriend to chat?

There has been a great controversy about the second chat between boyfriend and girlfriend. Some people think that answering messages every second is a sign of love and concern, while others object, so should chatting be answered every second? The following is an introduction by Bian Xiao from Babel.com..

Is it necessary for men and women to talk for a second?

Netizen's hot comment:

1, seconds? Taking a bath for too long, you can't sleep well, you can't eat, and the other person doesn't know what you are paying. Why bother?

I really like chatting in seconds. Those who walk away and come back to tell you what you just did are simply the light of life.

People who can talk for a second either like you or are idle.

4, don't lose it before you know how to cherish it, cherish the person in front of you, there is a kind of licking the dog, just because my wife cares too much about you.

Tell me in advance that you are playing games, so I won't chat with you. Go and play by yourself, and you won't say how I know what you are doing, so as to stimulate the battlefield to meet you.

6. Anyway, I think I can either not go back or go back in seconds. Don't always do that half-baked thing. Or you can tell her that you have gone to play games, and then call her when you are finished.

7. Please let me know if you don't reply for a long time. After playing the game for more than ten or twenty minutes, I'm still waiting for a reply.

8. The second return is not important. The important thing is that people will die if they don't chat.

9. Everything was explained and every sentence was left behind.

10, it depends. Sometimes I'm really too busy to look at my mobile phone.

1 1, seconds is seconds, maybe I really didn't see it. But! I really have to go back when I see it. Don't send me a message every few hours or three to five days, saying that you don't look at your mobile phone. Do you think you are cultivating immortality in the dust?

Should we reply in a few seconds?

1, I always feel that the person who sent the message on his own initiative is very sad. It is conceivable that in this relationship, people who send messages on their own initiative will definitely pay more.

When I saw the chat record, I seemed to see myself. A long time ago, like her, I sent messages to people I liked every day. Every message he sends is a second, for fear that he will wait too long for my reply.

However, this second is what he doesn't cherish. He said to me, "Are you tired of sending me so many messages every day?"

It turned out that for him, my second reply turned out to be an interruption, just like I gave you the most precious thing, but you didn't like it.

Seconds back because of importance, take the initiative to humble to find each other, because of love. But in the eyes of others, your seconds, your initiative, and your humility are worthless.

2. I often reply to the other party's information in seconds, but the other party ignores me all day, even sending a circle of friends and not returning to me.

I thought the other person was cute, especially when I was coquetry, so I gave her a note called "my little cutie".

My mobile phone photo album has a special atlas, which is full of photos of each other, happy, cute, funny and cute.

I know she doesn't like chocolate cake, but she likes mangoes. Every time she drinks milk tea, it is mango series.

I often take her out to play, take her to eat delicious food, and I will buy her anything she likes.

However, I have done so much, but the other party is getting farther and farther away from me, and the number of times I reply to messages has also decreased a lot.

Such humble love is not her treasure.

After reading this message, I feel sorry for this little brother.

All along, it's the reincarnation of another person. Is this really the love you want?

In fact, feelings are between two people, and our sincerity should be given to those who cherish you.

3, see such a passage in Weibo, deeply impressed:

"I found a particularly comfortable relationship that didn't always hold me back. Sometimes I am willing to send you everything I see now, without organizing concise language, and I am not afraid to say something wrong, and I will not wait for a reply after sending it. Because I know that you will always see that it is trust and stability that will not be left behind at any time. "

I know what it feels like to receive the second message from the person I like, and I also know what it feels like to care about someone.

If the other person likes you, even if it can't be done for a second, I will return it to you later.

You know, some information can't wait, just like some people, no matter how long you wait, they won't come back.

People who really like you don't need you to hold your mobile phone for a few seconds all day, and they won't keep you waiting for news from him.

We all have only one life, and we can't give generously to people I don't love.

There is no need to be too humble in love. Don't be the one who answers messages in seconds. It's not that you deliberately alienate each other, but whether the person who really reads the news is worthy of your love.

Because life is so short, our love has to be worthy of people.