Is it normal for a husband to be sent messages by his wife and other women?

It cannot be said that all husbands send messages behind their wives' backs. Of course, good men don't send messages behind their wives' backs. If he loves his wife very much and cares about his family, he should tell her everything clearly. There are also some men who send messages behind their wives' backs, afraid that their wives will be suspicious and afraid to tell their wives, so they can only send them behind their backs. In particular, some harassing text messages sent by some colleagues and friends may be because they are afraid that their wives will see them and cause great misunderstanding, so they send text messages behind their backs.