Daughter-in-law doesn't see her in-laws, doesn't answer the phone, doesn't return messages, and is not allowed to see her grandson.

Today's children can't be stocked as before, and they can wander around with bare arms. Nowadays, children are spoiled, and people who study know that bacteria are everywhere. In addition, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different ideas. It is normal for daughter-in-law not to let you take care of children, because they have their own ideas and their own parenting concepts. The younger generation pays attention to hygiene. They don't do farm work as before. They just need food and water to drink.

Families living together need mutual understanding and care. Let's not blame our daughter-in-law for not letting her take care of her grandchildren, because it's not easy for her to conceive in October, and she also wants her children to be healthy. If she doesn't like the uncleanness of your children, she can check whether she is right or not. If she is really too casual and has no big concept of hygiene, it's time to change it. After all, the child is too young and has poor resistance. It is better to be careful. If she has the conditions, let the child be refined.

If she just doesn't want you to take care of the children, then stay out of it. Let young people solve it themselves. You are her elder, and she won't be too embarrassed for you not to see your children. Anyway, she wants to educate her children in her own way and keep you out of it. You have worked hard all your life, have a good rest, go out for a walk with your wife if you have nothing to do, and occasionally visit Doby's grandson, so that life will be easier and many contradictions will be reduced.

Don't blame your daughter-in-law for not letting you take care of your grandchildren, and don't be wronged. Just be yourself. She said there must be her reasons for not taking care of the children cleanly. Forget it after the self-examination, let her educate her children by herself. People should enjoy themselves when they are old, and it is too tiring to take care of children. Only occasionally, Doby children play with them. We still don't need to worry about it.