The object never calls or texts every day.

Everyone's personality is different. I think I can understand you, because so can I. I always take the initiative to call and feel how much the phone bill can cost. I always feel that I am so active that the man doesn't care about himself. But come to think of it, it's just our idea. We can't force others to do what we want them to do. Maybe your long absence will make you more suspicious of his feelings for you, so my suggestion is, if conditions permit.

If this person deserves your initiative, don't doubt anything. I hope you can be happy every day!