Is giving birth to a second child really to find a partner for the child?

Finding a partner for a child is one of the reasons why many people have a second child. There are several other reasons.

Although China's economy is developing very well now, there are still many families with poor economic conditions. Their income is very low and they are very worried about their old age. Therefore, in their minds, the daughter is married and the son is the one who can support his parents. If the first child is a daughter, then a second child will be born anyway. If the second child is still a daughter, it is estimated that there will be three more. I have a relative who has always wanted to have a son. The fourth child turned out to be a daughter. I feel that they are also very courageous. If I were you, I would feel a lot of pressure. I dare not have a second child now.

Reduce the burden of children's later life. Many people have given birth to a second child in order to lighten the burden on their children. I think many only children born in 1980s will feel great. When they are old, young and middle-aged, their jobs and incomes are average. Under such circumstances, the pressure of raising children and supporting the elderly will be great. It would be much easier if one more brother or sister could share it. My mother-in-law gave birth to three sons and no daughters, so in terms of providing for the aged, it would be much easier for the three brothers if each son shared some.

Want to have more children I know many people still like children. They just want to have more children. In their hearts, they always feel that having more children at home will be more lively and feel more at home, and it will also make the family prosperous, which is a good thing to honor their ancestors. Among my classmates and colleagues, there are people who, whether they are generally rich or not, still have four children even if their first child is a son.

There are still many people who want to have a second child from the beginning. What they want most is children in pairs. If the first child is a daughter, they will want the second child to be a son. If the first child is a son, they will want the second child to be a daughter. However, it is not according to people's wishes to have boys and girls, so it will be accepted regardless of the second child.