I am a very introverted boy, especially introverted. Sometimes I blush when I talk to others. In a group, a person will blush when he speaks.

hehe, seeing the situation of the landlord, I seem to see myself in the past! I didn't know that the landlord was in more than 9 years, and I was in 1992. We are almost the same! I used to be very introverted, and I felt that I was not as good as others. I blushed when I talked to people, especially girls! But I'm much better now, I can't speak and blush (I guess I can't tell if I'm black, hehe ... I'm kidding), and I also found a girlfriend (I chased her, she was beautiful, and I felt that I had no chance at all, so I was nervous when I confessed, but she agreed! Later, she told me that she had already liked me! Er ..... It seems to be beside the point)! I say so much just to tell the landlord that introversion is not terrible, and introversion can be changed! I don't know whether the landlord's introversion is due to his family or his own reasons, but introverts are generally inferior. They feel that they are not as good as others, and they are not as good as others. They blindly hide themselves and close themselves off from people (their own opinions are not necessarily right, but I am like this)! If the landlord is like what I said, I can give you some suggestions. It depends on your own mentality:

1 Practice your mind-believe in yourself, give yourself confidence, subjectively think that you are the best, without doubt, make sure and affirm that you are the best! Abandon the inferiority complex forever!

2 Practice your mouth-don't the landlord blush when he speaks? Then practice speaking in front of the mirror every day. If you have nothing to say, just learn from the comic dialogue actors on TV to tell jokes, such as the name of the newspaper, tongue twisters, what you catch, and when you feel ok. Then talk to friends around you, especially female friends. Anyway, talk to whoever you are afraid of talking to!

3 brain practice-in fact, this is related to mouth practice, and speaking is also an art, which needs us to learn and exercise! But what to say, how to say it, you have to use your head! It is suggested that the landlord find some comedy movies and humorous jokes when he has nothing to do, learn the humorous wisdom and increase his humorous cells! Usually, if you have something to do, you can make a harmless joke with your friends, and there are funny messages or jokes to tell your friends around you, so that everyone can laugh happily!

4. Practice bravery-it's not necessary for the landlord to play any extreme games and experience excitement. The so-called "practice bravery" is to "unseal" yourself, integrate into the group and become an active member in the group! There is the simplest and most difficult way to do this-does the landlord have a favorite girl? If there is, then pursue her boldly, don't be afraid of rejection, you haven't even tried, how do you know you can't! You should know that girls are shy, even if she likes you, she won't tell you directly (of course, some fierce women can't be understood with normal thinking)! At this time, you need to take the initiative, and maybe it will be. When the time comes, you will not only win the beauty, but also exercise yourself. Why not! Even if it's rejected, it doesn't matter-we even chased girls, so what's to be embarrassed about! Change the next one and keep practicing! We don't believe that there is not a flower willing to insert in my cow dung!

Hehe ... I have said so much just to hope that the landlord can bid farewell to introversion, inferiority complex and singleness as soon as possible (if the landlord is still single)! Hee hee.