What should parents pay attention to when they meet a man for the first time?

Look at the precautions of the man's parents.

First, the gift list reference.

1. Fruit.

The principle is not to buy those that are too ordinary, but to buy delicious food, not too heavy. Fruit is the safest choice for the first meeting, that is, when you are not sure what to buy, or this meeting is family-style, then buying fruit will not be amazing, but it will never be rude.

2. Health products.

It is also a good choice to send the elders. Generally, you can buy health care products such as calcium tablets, vitamins or protein powder for the first time as a gift. Both men and women can use it and send it to grandparents. Simple and practical.

3. food.

It's best to associate this kind of words with specific festivals, such as Mid-Autumn Festival, and send a moon cake or something.

4. Professional category.

This is a very pleasing gift, for example, buy some pearl powder, a seaside specialty, and send some local specialty cakes, which are generous and easy to take, just say that they are specialties for each other to taste.

5. others.

For example, you can buy skin care products, clothes, bags and perfume for your mother. If you give it to your father, buy tea, handicrafts, alcohol and tobacco.

6. If there are young people, you can consider giving them age-appropriate gifts or red envelopes.

Remember, the total price of all gifts should be about 10% of your monthly salary.

Second, pay attention when meeting.

1. Never go to see your parents empty-handed. This is due courtesy.

2. Take the initiative to say hello when you enter the door (at this time, you can also tell your boyfriend in advance and let him show you the way). Don't look around, give the gift to your uncle and aunt, or put it on the ground first.

3. Take off your shoes and put them aside.

4. Always smile, and you'd better use honorifics when you speak. We are all polite girls ~

When chatting, look into the eyes of the person you are talking to and give some appropriate responses, instead of just listening all the time. When the elders ask questions, they should also look them in the eye and answer them. Don't be coy, just answer generously, but don't say it all foolishly, just think about it in your heart, so that you can answer correctly.

6. The best state is to ask and answer questions, don't treat yourself as an outsider, be measured in what you say and do, and remember that this is not your home.

7. Don't play with your mobile phone and watch TV all the time, so your uncles and aunts want to talk to you. You are too absorbed to talk to you.

Third, make up when you meet.

Need to communicate with your boyfriend in advance. Everyone knows that you should be decent and generous, and you can wear light makeup. But specifically, the suggestion is that you can choose your style according to your personal temperament, and you can also learn from your husband what attitude your parents have towards girls' makeup.

1. Make up mainly with light makeup, and don't turn your face to the sky.

2. Clothing can consider dress+high heels, which is more suitable and loved by elders. It's best to give priority to warm colors, not too bright and not too plain, and pay attention to your skin color is mainly white. Never open your legs, these older people are unacceptable.

3. Don't dye strange hair color. If there are already two hair colors, you can dye one brown hair color in advance. Hair can be tied or tied, but it can't be messy.

4. Don't wear exaggerated ornaments or expensive bags. Simple and perfect.

5. Pay attention to using light perfume, and it is best not to wear it, because some elders can't accept the smell.

6. You can apply more masks and eat less spicy food in front of you for a few days to ensure a good skin condition. Go to bed early the night before, but don't wear two big black sleeping circles.

Fourth, the details after the meeting.

Girls' articles.

1. Thank your boyfriend's family, and go home safely with your boyfriend. If you add your uncle and aunt's WeChat, you can also thank them for their safety, and you can also praise your uncle and aunt's delicious food.

2. Good relations are maintained. I usually chat with my uncles and aunts to express my holiday wishes.

You can ask your boyfriend, parents and family about your attitude, and you can communicate with your boyfriend if you have any questions.

Boys' articles.

1. Boys should praise their girlfriends more and make their parents and family like her more and more subtly!

2. If his girlfriend does something wrong or makes his parents and family uncomfortable, the boy must communicate and explain with his family in time, and don't let the misunderstanding hide in his heart, which will be difficult to resolve in the future.

Fifth, look at your previous preparations.

Girls' articles.

1. Ask about the boyfriend's family structure: how many people usually live together, who will attend this meeting, and whether parents and elders have reorganized, so as to prepare gifts and avoid embarrassing things.

2. Ask about your boyfriend's family: For example, do you have any beliefs? Is it necessary to pay attention to people and things that you can't mention? In case you run into each other's minefield, it's embarrassing.

3. Ask your boyfriend's family's preferences: it's easier to give gifts, and it's easier to find a suitable chat topic.

Boyfriend articles.

1. Seriously introduce your girlfriend's habits to your parents so that they can get to know her.

2. Express your attention to your girlfriend and let your parents pay attention to it. You can make preparations in advance, which will also make your girlfriend feel more at ease and relaxed.

3. Communicate your girlfriend's personality with your family in advance. Too quiet to let parents talk; Too naughty, make parents more tolerant and lose face.

4. If you usually speak dialects at home, remind your parents to speak more Mandarin.