What should I say when visiting elders and patients?

China has a fine tradition of respecting the old and caring for the young, and giving gifts to the elders at ordinary times has become a major event. The elders are our guides, and they are very kind to us. Especially when the elders are sick, we should pay more attention. What do patients say when they visit their elders? The following are some of the contents I collected, hoping to help you.

Talk with elderly patients ★ Be affable and approachable, and communicate with the elderly with your heart. When giving gifts and talking to elders, smile on your face, so that the elderly can feel your kindness and sincerity, and feel that you really greet them and care about them. In addition, if you want your elders to feel your intention, you should keep your eyes fixed on each other's eyes, so that your elders can feel that you are not paying attention to him. You can also have a conversation between the same sex by touching each other's gestures.

You should also pay attention to the position between you and your elders. Don't let your elders hold their heads up or talk to you from a distance, because they will think you are aloof and inaccessible. The correct way is to bend down and talk to the elders at close range, so that the elders feel equal to you and that you value him.

★ Pay attention to the speed of speaking with elders. Generally speaking, you should speak slowly and in a moderate tone. Some deaf (hearing-impaired) elders speak louder, but they also need to judge each other's needs according to their expressions and reactions. When greeting and talking here, you'd better choose topics that your elders like, such as hometown, relatives, childhood events, TV programs, etc. Avoid mentioning topics that your elders don't like, or you can talk more about yourself first and let your elders trust you before starting other topics.

★ Know how to really appreciate your elders. Everyone is eager to be affirmed, especially the elders who are more and more like children. They like to be praised and praised. Therefore, if you praise them sincerely and generously, they will be very happy, so that the conversation atmosphere between you will be much more active.

★ Be patient with your elders. Old people are generally nagging, and a small matter can be said for a long time. You shouldn't show impatience, but listen to the old man patiently. In addition, if something goes wrong or the old man's mood changes, you should try not to persuade him. Pat the other person's hand or shoulder to comfort him, stabilize his mood, and then change the subject as soon as possible.

★ Pay attention to the content of greetings. The content of greetings can be determined according to the age of the elders. For example, when they are old, they can greet their health, life and their children, hoping that they will take care of themselves and not work too hard. For elders of average age, you can talk to them about the same topic, such as work situation, and you can ask them some questions.

Gifts for patients to visit their elders are prepared according to their own preferences.

If you know each other well, you can prepare gifts according to their preferences. For example, elders like to drink, so they can buy some good wine. Older people like to taste tea and send some good tea or tea sets.

Send something suitable for the elders.

Know what elders are suitable to eat and what they like to eat, not according to their own preferences. For example, some old people like to eat cakes and cakes, and some elders like cereal and sesame sauce. Choosing the right food for them is simple, but it suits them.

Send some massage health care equipment.

Old people are old and their physical fitness is not as good as before. You can buy some better massagers as gifts. Of course, when choosing a massager, you should experience it yourself and know how to use it.

Send something more meaningful.

For example, some beautiful potted plants (evergreen trees, safety trees, etc. ), or some wood carving crafts, jade ornaments, etc. It is also a good choice to be more generous and happy.

Send some nutrition.

You can buy some foods with high nutritional value such as red dates, donkey-hide gelatin and honey. The quality of these nutrients should be better.

Send some special dishes.

You have some special foods there. You can buy some for your elders. For example, seafood, dried fish, or fresh fruit that you don't usually eat is also a good choice.

Greetings from visiting elderly patients: 1, I wish you a speedy recovery! Is a cold ok?

2. Taking an injection to take medicine is miserable, and I can't get rid of it. I can understand this feeling and calm down. When you are sick, your friends have been thinking about you and silently praying for you: I hope you will recover soon!

This is a short message about happiness, which comes from a truest heart and a purest feeling. Everyone I see will pass it on to those who want to bless most, so I will pass it on to you first. I wish you a speedy recovery!

In life, the value of health far exceeds prestige and wealth. May you combine work and rest and take care of yourself.

Exercise is the source of health and the secret of longevity. I hope you can exercise every day and live longer.

6. I wish you a speedy recovery. Take good care of yourself without me by your side! This is my greatest wish.

7. Face with a calm mind, dominate with a bright smile, appetize with a happy atmosphere, wash your lungs with fresh air, sleep with enough time, and remember with a healthy mind, and the disease will voluntarily retreat. I wish you a speedy recovery!

8, with the way of nature, raise the body of nature. A person who forgets his own spring and autumn is the most robust.

9. A plain greeting is exchanged for long-term concern; A blessing, like the usual wind, sent a shadow; An ordinary text message brings complete inner warmth like rain! I only wish you a speedy recovery!

10, sick four noes: you can't be sad silently, you can't smoke and drink, you can't exercise vigorously, and you can't delete the blessing of this short message. I wish you a speedy recovery!

1 1, the sunshine is always after the storm, and there is a clear sky on the dark clouds. Cherish all the touches, and every hope is in your hands. Sunshine is always after the storm, please believe that there is a rainbow, and I will always be by your side.

12, where the sun shines, there is my silent blessing. When the moonlight shines on the earth, I pray silently. At the moment when the meteor passed by, I made a wish: I wish you stay away from illness while reading short messages!

13, less smoking, less drinking, less complaining, a better attitude and a better mood will make you healthier.

14, don't be impatient, face your troubles calmly. Don't mind others, rest your body and mind. Life is still beautiful, and the sun is always shining. I wish you a speedy recovery and smile in the face of setbacks!

15, think about parents, taking medicine is not bitter; Think of relatives and friends, injections don't hurt; Miss your heart? The disease will get better! I wish you a speedy recovery and full of energy.

16, thinking of you is an important job, thinking of you is a must-do job, caring for you is a daily job, I wish you a job you like, and you are greeted by a job that only loses money temporarily, hoping to give you courage to get out of your illness as soon as possible!

17, beaming, blessed by the gods, purple light is auspicious. Don't be anxious to relax because you are in poor health after recovering from a serious illness. Blessed are those who survive and live happily in the Spring and Autumn Period. I wish you good health and good luck forever after your illness.

18, I tied the joy on the New Year ribbon and dedicated it to you. Hang my thoughts of you on a necklace and stick them in my heart.

19, San Xiao looks good every day, and seven or eight people are full and not old. When you meet Mo Wen, it's better to be calm than to take medicine.

20, busy every day, very hard, pay attention to your health, take care of yourself, eat and sleep well for your family, and be healthy!

2 1, the weather is getting worse, and I care about you very much; Cover it at night, be careful that your feet are frozen; Eating bones will supplement calcium; Don't say I'm not good, have a nice day!

22. The weather is really fast, and the north wind is blowing quietly. Take your coat when you go out, remember to cover it when you sleep, eat more fruits and vegetables, and remember to supplement calcium. Health will always accompany you!

23. Escape from the chase of troubles, love each other with happiness, give up pessimism, seize optimistic ideas, face life positively, and make life happier and more comfortable. My friend has left. I wish you a speedy recovery and good health by SMS!

As the saying goes, health is the capital of revolution, and health is the guarantee of success. Congratulations on regaining your capital and feeling safe again. Your life revolution will be a great success!

25. Send you a star in the dark to illuminate the reborn grass in the wildfire; Send you a cold plum to make a tree drunk and fly in the early spring; Send you a touch of fire under the ashes, ignite the courage to struggle in a sick body, come on!

26. Proper exercise can replace almost all drugs, but there is no drug in the world that can replace the role of exercise.

27. Life lies in exercise. The taste of being sick is very uncomfortable, so you must pay more attention to your health!

28, the taste of illness is very uncomfortable, you must take care of yourself! Good health and moderate life can prolong life.

29, illness is not terrible, as long as the faith is there, rehabilitation is not a dream, and the future will be grand; Take disease as a challenge and faith as a weapon. I wish you a speedy recovery!