What should I do if my wife goes to the KTV and doesn’t go home?

Since I got married, I have devoted a lot to this family. I am a businessman, and my business collapsed this year. I lost almost all the money I earned, but I can still maintain a basic living. A month ago, she said she was going to work to make money. I didn't stop her, but I didn't expect that she would go to a KTV to sit on the stage. When I found out, I was very angry and refused to let her do it. She said that she was doing this for the sake of the family and also promised that she would not do it. Just a week ago, she sent me a text message saying that her feelings for me had faded and that she wanted to divorce me. After seeing it, I knew she had changed her mind, and I still wanted to try my best to keep her. After all, I still loved her. Recently she said she would not divorce, but she could not guarantee that she would not cheat. what do I do? Z1: Women who sit in KTV are either forced by life, are indolent, or have sexual needs. You first need to find out why your wife is sitting on the stage, and then have a good talk with her to let her regain her confidence in you. No matter what the situation is, it is recommended that you mobilize her to leave the KTV as soon as possible. In that kind of place, the possibility of not showing up is almost zero, and men's money is not that easy to make. If you work in that kind of place, you are likely to be cuckolded or even lose your marriage. If she is unwilling to leave and you don't want to live a cuckold life, it is recommended to consider divorce. Why should you linger on such an unfaithful woman? Q2: Last year I found out that my husband was having an affair, and everyone at home advised us to reconcile, so I forgave him. We often quarreled after that, and he always picked on me and found faults. The house was not clean, the child had a cold, and he came back from get off work late and made dinner late. These were all reasons for him to get angry. My family members all advised me to endure it, saying it was for the sake of my children. A few days ago, he hit me for a trivial matter. At first, I tolerated it and didn't fight back. In the end, he hit me with something, and I couldn't bear it any longer, so I started fighting with him. In the end, he beat me all over my body with injuries, and my parents took me back to my parents' home. He didn't come to apologize to me. He just called me once and said that I could go back if I wanted to, and if I didn't want to go back, I could stay at my mother's house. I get scared when I think of him hitting me, but I also miss my children. Should I go back to this home? Z2: The reason why domestic violence becomes more and more serious is that the perpetrators are not punished as they should be and even benefit from the violence. If you go back like this, I guarantee you will only be beaten worse in the future. Regardless of the reason, it was wrong for him to hit you and should be punished so that he doesn't do it again in the future. I suggest you take the initiative to file for divorce if he is willing to prove that there is no longer any love between you. If he doesn't want to, you can give him a step down and ask him to make a written promise not to hit you again in the future. If he hits you again after you go back, it is recommended that you divorce firmly. Unless you are willing to live a life of being punched, don't expect him to change. Opportunities can only be given once. If you have too many, it is not an opportunity, but self-disgrace. Q3: My husband is an alcoholic and is very kind to me. We have never fought over anything other than drinking. Sometimes I feel very sad and want to divorce him, but I can't let him go. I can't live with the divorce and there is nothing I can do to him. What should I do? Z3: Alcohol addiction is a mental illness, and general methods are difficult to achieve. It is recommended to go to a regular specialized hospital for treatment. Addiction is painful, and he doesn't want it to be. Since there is still love between you, why should you give up when he is "sick"? It is recommended that he be sent to treatment as soon as possible. Regular hospitals can cure him. If he insists, you can consider divorce. This kind of disease will not get better without treatment, and your life will definitely be difficult in the future. As for face, it is nothing compared to living a good life. Do you want face or a comfortable life? I think you must know the answer. Q4: The mistress gave birth to my husband’s child, and now she is using the child to blackmail us. The lion is asking for money and a house. I was so tired of this marriage. I wanted to give up and told my husband to make things happen for them, but my husband said he couldn’t leave me and the children. He also said that even if I didn’t want him anymore, he wouldn’t be able to live with his mistress. He said that this woman was too Terrible! It was quite pitiful to see him in agony being forced by the mistress all day long. I actually forgot about the piercing pain when the mistress came to visit me. what do I do? Z4: Your husband is like a lost child who got into trouble outside and went home to find his mother. Faced with such a domineering mistress, I suggest you and your husband take legal channels to resolve the matter. The fact that the mistress dared to give birth to the child shows that she had made enough preparations before coming to the door. If she kept it secret, there would be endless troubles. Give up money to avoid disaster. The mistress's child is your husband's flesh and blood. He has the responsibility to raise and take responsibility. Reasonable compensation should be given. As for the part where the lion opens his mouth, even if your husband pays for the tuition, as long as he can learn a lesson from this incident, consider it as winning a marriage defense battle.