Parents' greetings to their children going to college.

After a year of intense review, my son finally settled down and was admitted to three universities in Beijing. At least today, he is also a prospective college student, and he can finally study his favorite major.

Since my son went to primary school, I have never worried that he will miss his college classmates. According to his intelligence and understanding, I conclude that my son will have a smooth sailing in his studies in the future. However, the facts tore my imagination. Since he successfully entered the high school threshold, his son became rebellious, turned a deaf ear to his parents' teaching, and even thought that his biological mother was not as amiable as the adoptive mother depicted in the TV series.

I remember once when I dictated his English words, I actually typed them all out. In a rage, I had a big fight with him. He hid in the bathroom and never came out. Then I compromised and gave him a step down. Later, there were several unpleasantness, both of which were mutually destructive. I have a sad face. He looks very wronged. The two sides took care of each other, and the result was that my son went his own way as usual, and I just let nature take its course.

Three years of high school have passed relatively peacefully. Although his son's grades are getting lower and lower, he has never felt inferior. He consciously goes to school on time every day and comes home from school. Although I am ashamed to hold a parent-teacher meeting (because ten students have been abandoned by the teacher), we still know the children's dynamics from the side. He doesn't do anything malicious except play basketball, make friends and organize group activities. Moreover, we also observe the child's manners. We can see that he is a thoughtful child, has a certain depth of understanding of the problem, is kind, intelligent, helpful and has a good relationship with his classmates. It may also be based on this advantage that we relaxed our strict control over him.

The failure of the college entrance examination this year is self-evident. From then on, my son made up his mind to work hard and said that he would prove to himself that he did not believe that he would lose in the examination room. The past year is completely different from the three years of high school. They no longer pursue the philosophy of dealing with people, play basketball, talk to their parents consciously, and talk about their review mentality and feelings ... It can be seen that children are sensible and begin to pay for their future. In addition to fulfilling our logistics responsibilities, we are gratified, which is naturally an encouragement to him.

What do parents say to their children who go to college?

1, college life is the best time in one's life. Four years passed quickly. No matter what you do, I hope you can cherish your time and don't waste it.

2. The knowledge you learned in college and the ability to exercise are the foundation of your future survival and development. I hope you can deeply realize that you are trying to do your best in both study and other aspects, and don't repeat the old road of high school, otherwise it will be too late to regret it later.

It is difficult to survive and develop in Beijing without graduate education. English is the key and core. I hope you can keep it in mind and put it into action.

4. To realize your dream, you must work hard for a long time. As long as you work hard, your dream will come true! Yu Dan, a student from Beijing Union University, is the best example. I believe you can be the favorite of your peers! Let all the relatives who care about you be proud of you!

Although I am taken care of by my family in Beijing, I must be self-reliant, self-respecting and self-reliant, with ambition and backbone, and establish my image and status with actions! Finally, I hope you can keep this message for a long time and remind yourself from time to time.

3 Short messages from parents to children

Son, dad wants to tell you that you are a man now. You should live independently and take care of yourself. Dad wants you to be an indomitable person, a person with a sense of responsibility, ability, resilience, courage and confidence.

Son, dad wants to tell you that health is the capital of revolution. You must have a healthy body, one is physical health and the other is mental health. Parents who are affected by their bodies must cherish themselves and everything they have, and don't wait until they lose it to regret it. In life, we must pay attention to safety, traffic safety, life safety, food safety, making friends safety and economic safety. You must keep exercising and have a healthy body.

Xiamen's living habits, eating habits and cultural environment are very different from those in the north. You should gradually adjust yourself, adjust your mentality, gradually adapt to the new study and living environment, and use your wisdom, courage and self-confidence to better overcome the inconvenience brought by life and environment. Mom and Dad will always believe in you-you can do it!

Son, dad wants to tell you that you must remember that learning can never be ignored. Never forget to study, and study will accompany you all your life. Through study, you can learn a lot of knowledge; By studying, you can master the ability you want to have; By studying, you can have the power to stand on your own feet in this complex society.

Son, dad wants to tell you to get into the habit of reading. Reading can make you smarter, more knowledgeable, more sober and more rational. Although there is no golden house or Yan Ruyu in the book, the world in the book is really wonderful.

Son, dad wants to tell you, don't be too demanding, learn to be flexible and tolerant. Society is complicated and life is hard to understand. Sometimes, you need a simple heart, don't see through everything, create more happiness and less pain; Son, don't be afraid of pain and frustration, don't be afraid of difficulties and bumps. Life is like this, don't complain, learn to be grateful, learn to think backwards, have sunshine in your heart, and don't let your heart be too dark and damp, which will easily lead to mildew and long hair and corrode your heart. Learn to be positive and optimistic, and let the sunshine shine into your heart. In that case, your life will be much warmer.