What about people who don't reply to text messages when they see them?

In life, we will always meet some people who don't reply to our news. What will you do at this time?

I know a girl. Every time she sends someone a message, she doesn't get a reply. She is particularly anxious and has all kinds of ideas.

One minute I told myself that the other party must be busy and didn't see the news, and then I decided that I had done something wrong, offended the other party and made the other party unhappy.

I have her mentality for a long time. When the other party doesn't reply to my message, I will keep sending a lot to the other party, just for the other party to reply to me and make me feel at ease. But to tell you the truth, it's really silly to recall yourself in the past.

Because someone who doesn't want to reply to your message, you sent a long message, and the other person's eyes are worthless, and you still think you are disturbing him. People who are willing to reply to you, no matter how many messages you send, even a word, will reply even if it may be late.

In reality, we all meet people who don't reply to our news, either lovers or others. You know, just because the other party doesn't reply to our message doesn't necessarily mean they don't care.

After all, everyone in this world has their own things to do, and no one will always hold a mobile phone just to reply to your message. So don't worry too much. You really don't know what to do with it. You might as well learn how smart people do it.

1. Don't think about it yet, and do what you should do.

Many people are psychologically fragile, especially women like sensibility. Once the people they care about don't reply to the information in time, they begin to think about whether the other person doesn't love themselves.

So I can't do anything quietly. You can't read quietly while reading, and you can't enjoy food while eating. I may not only keep thinking about this in my mind, but also keep looking at my mobile phone and expect the other party to reply to me.

This is actually very bad, because when you start thinking, you can only guess for yourself all the time, but no matter what, you still can't get a real conclusion.

In the end, you won't see one thing and another. Because of their emotions, it will affect the interpersonal relationship around them, interfere with life, delay work, sleep and so on.

Thinking about things will bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble. The person who makes you think about things doesn't even know what you have suffered because of Ta. In short, it is oneself who suffers.

In that case, you might as well do what you should do, do what you should do. Anyway, you can't let the other party give you a result now. You might as well calm down, give each other some time and wait for a definite result.

If I haven't replied to you for a long time, don't send any more messages.

In reality, some people may be so controlling that they can't stand being ignored by people who care about them and don't return messages. When the other party doesn't reply to his message, this person will habitually send two, three or even four, five or more messages.

Admittedly, this may make you feel better and relieve a little anxiety and uneasiness, but you should know that if a person doesn't want to reply to your message, even if you keep sending a lot of messages to the other party, it is useless.

People who have you in their hearts and will reply to your information will definitely reply to you after a long time. People who don't want to reply to your message, even if you send them n messages, they won't take a reason.

So no matter how much information you send to a person, the final result is doomed, and you can't change it at all. So when you find someone, send a message to the other person, and then stop sending it, just wait for the other person to reply.

03. The other person deliberately ignores you, so don't bother in the future.

In this era, everyone is very dependent on mobile phones, and almost all of them are inseparable from mobile phones, so if you send a message to someone, the other party will see it soon.

The other party doesn't answer you now, which can only explain two situations. One is that this person is really busy, and the other is that the other person deliberately ignores you. Never returning to you is the second case, and the other party doesn't want to talk to you.

In the face of people who don't return the news, smart people will judge the reason first. Smart people do things in a measured way, knowing that the other party deliberately ignores themselves and will not bother. This kind of treatment is also to leave a little dignity and dignity for yourself.

Seriously, no one in the adult world can't live without anyone. People who don't reply to our news don't care about us and don't value our initiative. In this case, we don't need to keep such people around, just stay away from them.