I met a girl, and I took the initiative to send text messages to chat with her. Sometimes she talks until midnight, and she never takes the initiative to find me. What should I do?

1: She is testing you.

Such a woman should not be a little woman. If the woman you are talking about is a little woman, you can basically rule this out. The definition of a little woman is: less than 25 years old and not working yet. If this woman is a mature woman, she is testing you. Mature women are good at this kind of trick.

The message you sent was regarded as boring by others.

This requires you to understand the psychology of this woman first. General: such a woman is realistic about life and has a philosophical understanding of life. Send a philosophical message to the other party and see what the other party has to say. If so, you must change the topic of your message, otherwise you will always be regarded as an outsider who has no topic with women.

3: She has no feelings for you at all.

That is, people have no feelings for you, but they are afraid of snubbing you and losing a potential friend if you don't show it. Such a woman, the general performance is that you send ten text messages, and she only replies to one or two. And I never take the initiative to send you a text message or call you. Even fighting is a trivial matter.

4: She can't choose between you and another man (or N men).

Such a woman is usually very protective of herself. She didn't know who she loved the most, so she decided not to accept it and see fate. What judgment? You can make unannounced visits or explore words. I don't think this needs to be taught. At this time, you must, insist!

5. She is hiding something.

The reason why she ignores you is because she is now in the most confused or difficult period of her life. Therefore, I despise things between the opposite sex. In order to make sure of this, you must know her work and family. In this case, you must wait.