My girlfriend from a different place sent me a message saying that she wanted to buy clothes. How should I reply to her tactfully? I'm afraid she'll use me as an ATM.

Under normal circumstances, girls will buy their own clothes and ask boys if the clothes I bought look good. I'm not telling boys that I want to buy clothes, but obviously I want them to pay.

For this kind of girlfriend, you should see if she often hints like this. If so, and you haven't known each other for a long time, she may be a gold digger or want to use your wallet. You can break up with her.

If it's just an accident, you have a good relationship and can pay the bill.