I like a girl who suddenly deleted my qq. Now I send a message to care about her and she gives it back to me. I think I said something wrong.

The first step is to collect as much information about her as possible during the preparation, and the more detailed the better.

Now is the information society. Whoever has first-hand information will be in an invincible position, and so will falling in love. You should know what she is most interested in, what she likes to eat, what she likes to listen to, what she likes to wear, what movies she likes to watch, what stars she likes, and even the date of her menstruation. You'd better know that if you want to do what you like, you must know yourself and know yourself. But one thing, pay attention to the specific operation, don't ask her everything, lest she think you are a mother-in-law, which is counterproductive. It's best to beat about the bush, ask around and pretend not to know her hobbies before. Occasionally, if she finds that you have the same interests as her, she will attract you as a confidant. You know, for girls, ordinary friends and like-minded friends are not the same concept!

The second step is to use information to get in touch with her.

First of all, you should know your own advantages. Handsome? Strong? Study hard? Humor? Careful, gentle and considerate? After finding your own advantages, try to show them in front of her, and show them in front of her if you have nothing to do, provided that you don't make her angry. As long as it is handled properly, it will definitely leave a deep impression on her. Even if she doesn't like you now, at least she will know that you are a person with special skills and will definitely give you extra points.

Secondly, you should be aware of your shortcomings. Silent, or not good at sports, and so on. Try to avoid exposing your shortcomings. If you don't like to speak naturally, don't parrot and show off your eloquence. If you are weak and physical education is not your strong point, then don't ask others to climb mountains to play ball, or girls will think you are not a "man".

The above two points are the most basic, so we must learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

It is worth noting that the first step and the second step can be carried out at the same time, complement each other and achieve better results.

The third step is the confession period (important! ) Seize the right moment to confess to her.

Remember, don't take this step easily, you must wait until the time is ripe.

You said you didn't know whether she liked you or not. I suggest that you never ask her directly. Once she says she doesn't like you, you have no room for manoeuvre. Going after her will make you look like a rogue and ignorant. If you really want to know, you can ask her good friend. It is easy for girls to talk about this topic. If she likes you, her girlfriend must know.

As for how to express yourself, there are no rules to follow, the most important thing is the atmosphere! Atmosphere! Girls are emotional animals. If the atmosphere is right and the feeling is right, they will be easily moved. Don't be like a headless fly, regardless of occasion or time, go up and say that there must be a certain brewing process. Judging from your tone, you feel like a student. It would be much easier if you were a student. Students are simple, but students may have to work harder.

The main factors affecting the atmosphere are place, time and people.

Let's talk about places first. You should know where to avoid choosing. It's hard to imagine that in a noisy roadside stall, you tell her that she will accept your love. On the contrary, in a quiet and peaceful environment, such as a small forest, a stream or a coffee shop, your chances of success are much greater.

Next is time. Don't be too early or too late. I'm not in the mood during the day. The best time is at night. Girls are more relaxed and excited at this time. If possible, they can watch the sunset, so the atmosphere is relatively contrast.

That's you two. Don't involve others. Some people think that it is more sincere to confess to girls in front of many people, but it is actually wrong. This is not clear about the difference between confession and marriage proposal in girls' minds: confession is private and should be hidden; Proposing marriage is an honor, and I hope everyone in the world knows it. So in order to propose to her in front of everyone, let's confess to her in a place where no one is around.

When the weather, location and people are in harmony, use your expression that you want to talk and your firm and gentle eyes to set off the atmosphere. So the topic is coming. Having said that, I finally got to the point. Here comes the exciting moment. Ah, wipe the saliva first, and I'll continue. It is said that the most important thing at this time is the method of confession. Is it disgusting or normal? Should I be glib or stutter? Should I look into the distance or stare straight at her? Did you put your hand on her shoulder or in your ass pocket? The author thinks that there is no absolutely correct and powerful method, mainly improvisation. The so-called ever-changing, care about one heart; Soldiers will block, water has means to cover; She is stronger than her, the moon shines on the river, she passes by, and the breeze blows the hills. This step is the core step, but there is no formula to copy. Many people can't help worrying. Actually, the author thinks so, hehe. But on the other hand, this is precisely the essence and charm of the art of love. If falling in love is the same as eating, chopsticks will be easy to grasp and will still touch your heart. What's the point?

I can only list a few words for your reference.

If it is wrong to love you, I would rather never love you. ...

I just want to grow old with you.

I am miserable without you. Will you spend the rest of your life with me?

I think I will accompany you to the market every day in the future. ...

Since you appeared, I know that it is so beautiful to have someone to love!

I love your heart until the end of the world.

Think about watching the sunrise and sunset with me!

Only you know my world. ...

I don't know when to start. I can't live without you.

Only you know my mood and only you can bring it to me.

Because I know I can't live without you, I will cherish it. ...

People always get old. I hope you will still be by my side.

No matter where you are, as long as you need me, I will fly back to you at any time.

I can't write love letters, only a "heart" that loves you. ...

My love is open for you, like white lightning breaking the sky; My love runs for you, like red blood filling my body. ...

No matter in this life or the afterlife, all I want is you. ...

Although I can't satisfy your greatest material life, I can satisfy you with my heart. ...

I love you with my passion and childhood loyalty. ...

Your words have been locked in my memory. You can keep the key for me all my life!

I have surrendered to you unconditionally, and you can sign a love contract!

Drink the wine of love you brewed, and you will be thirsty for a lifetime without refilling it!

I swear that 50 years later, I still love you as much as I do now. ...

I hope the last person I see before I go to bed is you.

I would rather not be free for you!

The fourth step is divided into two situations.

1 The confession was successful, so happily life+carefully maintained her feelings.

If the second confession fails, go back to the first step and start over.

Give it to me after typing so many words.