Why does my husband always send me a message after I quarreled with him and went out to work, asking me to come back, and then I came back, and I quarreled and said I wanted to divorce him?

Your husband must be not very confident. He is afraid that you will become wild after going out and be attracted by the outside world, and then look down on him and divorce him, so he doesn't want you to go out. Let you stay at home all the time. Only when you can't see the outside world will you not abandon him. But as a woman, we must stand on our own feet and never stay at home. Living by her husband, one has no economic rights and the other has no right to speak.