Remarried after three years of divorce, and received a transfer message before the wedding. What should I do?

I am a divorced man. I still remember that my ex-wife and I went to high school together. We dated in high school. At that time, love was not allowed by parents and wives, so we fell in love quietly. But at that time, our love at most was to appreciate each other and hold hands.

Maybe others will say that falling in love in school will inevitably affect our study, but we don't. We encourage each other. We study together and make progress together. Finally, our university entered the same school.

My ex-wife and I have always had a good relationship. My ex-wife is a very good woman, kind and virtuous, especially independent. My biggest dream is to marry her home. Finally, my dream really came true. After graduating from college, we both got married. Our wedding was simple because we didn't have a financial base at that time, but these ex-wives didn't care. She said she would spend the rest of her life with me. The wedding is just a formality.

After we got married, our life has been very happy. I used to think that we would be so happy all our lives. It should be said that my ex-wife and I didn't quarrel much after we got married, but this happy marriage finally fell apart. That's because one day, I bumped into my ex-wife and a man in the cafe in front of our unit. My ex-wife didn't explain much and didn't keep it from me.

In this way, we divorced. I didn't expect her to betray me. Maybe she really loves me too much, so I can't accept it. I haven't contacted her since the divorce, but in my heart, I can't let her go. But now we have been divorced for a year. In this year, in order to heal my inner wounds, I also started dating, tried to fall in love, and finally stayed with my present wife.

We just got married a few days ago, but on our wedding night, I received a text message, not from my ex-wife, but from her friend. Its general content is to explain to me that my ex-wife's affair is not true, but that her ex-wife did it on purpose to divorce me. The real reason is that her ex-wife has cancer, and she divorced me because she was afraid that I would try my best to treat her.

At that time, her friend didn't say that his ex-wife had passed away. I received this message and took my wife directly to his ex-wife's house. But then my former mother-in-law told me that my ex-wife actually died less than two months after our divorce. At that moment, I cried.

I know I've been sorry for my ex-wife all my life, and all this can't be made up. My former mother-in-law told me not to be sad. She said that what my ex-wife wanted most was my happiness, otherwise she wouldn't have done it in the first place.

My ex-wife wants me to be happy. I must live a happy life and let her rest in peace. I will live well with my wife in the future. I have missed a woman who really loves me and I really love her. I can't miss another one.