What does the stepmother mean by sending this text message?

Girl, I understand your mood and know where your problems are. I understand your stepmother’s thoughts and why she sent this message. Then let’s analyze it

The first explanation is “You "The problem" and "your stepmother's thoughts". This is the first time for both of you to encounter this kind of problem and you don't know each other well. For example, if a guest comes to your home, it would be fine if you stay for a few days. If you stay there permanently, your different living habits will lead to conflicts. Then why did you have a good relationship when you first came here but then ended up having a good relationship? . .

It is difficult for us ordinary people to integrate with strangers. Even if you are very popular, you may not be able to handle the relationship with strangers well. However, you and your stepmother did well at the beginning. This is because you both accept each other as family members. When it comes to cultivating a relationship, both parties are very cautious, fearing that it will affect the other's emotions and make the other uncomfortable, so you both try your best to restrain yourself and maintain this family relationship. However, as time goes by, both of you have become lax, or your personalities will inevitably change. No matter what happens now, you must first make sure that you have treated your stepmother as a relative at least once, right? Then I think your stepmother has also treated you as a relative at least once. When my daughter sees this, it means you have a good relationship at the beginning

The second "About sending you a message" Our first article analyzed the changes in the state of mind of both of you, right? You have also come here to ask this question. Then it means that you often spend time thinking about your stepmother's thoughts and comparing your feelings to a girl outside, such as your unrelated sister. I think you will also be worried or a little concerned, right? But after all, both parties seem to be talking on the phone. It can’t be said to be awkward but rather a bit embarrassing for both parties, so she chose to send a text message and called you the eldest daughter very affectionately. I think your stepmother is in the same situation as you. I think the purpose of you asking this question is to get along well with your stepmother. Yes, then your stepmother also wants to get along well with you. There is a small stream between you two now

The third question about cooking or your accommodation is that you are also a part of the family and should be in college. Have you graduated? Or at least graduated from junior high school, right? Considering your age, it shouldn't be a problem to find a quilt to cover yourself or find a key to open the door. Of course, your stepmother has been negligent in this regard. The old man also thinks that this is an area that she needs to improve. If she doesn't cook it for you, then your dad cooks it for you or you cook it yourself. It doesn't matter. We are all a family, right? You also said that if you go out to buy fruit, she will thank you. Generally, family members don't seem to do so. Say thank you. Your family is the only one that can treat each other like guests and be polite and good.

Summary of the first article, we are sure that you are trying to improve the relationship between the two parties and try to treat each other as a family, right? At least the fact that you are asking this question shows that you still have the idea of ??getting closer to your stepmother. The second point shows that both of you are shy. The third point is to treat each other with respect as a guest. In fact, it is an extension of the second point. Ordinary families should not be so polite, right? The third article confirms the second article, so both of you currently have a breakthrough and need to express your feelings to the other person. In fact, you both care about the other person and want to be close to each other, but there is no peacemaker, so you might as well take this text message to the next level and reply more kindly. In fact, I think your stepmother is a good person. She says thank you even if she buys fruit. So I think this message is for you to step down, so don’t hold on. In fact, there is no misunderstanding between you at all. After all, you are from other countries. It is inevitable that new members of the family will be estranged. Take advantage of this step to get down. It is not easy to find a step these days. Besides, she is here to give you a step as an elder. You are satisfied, right? You have to remember that you have not misunderstood, but you can't be honest yet. Accept each other and be honest. Your family will be happier. Don't be suspicious. Not all stepmothers are as bad as the girls on TV. I will tell you honestly. The reason why your family members can get along well is that you care about your relationship. Came here for a consultation

Text messages make you nervous. Your stepmother also cares about your relationship. Find a way for you to step down, so I think you are cautious about each other for fear that the other will be angry. If you are cautious, then the family relationship will be handled well. I'm afraid that everything will be fine. If you are a caring person, please be honest and your family will be happy

Home and Wanshixing No matter what the relationship between family members is, living in the same home is a family that handles it well. I think your family is quite good. There are many people online who think so, right?