How to save your ex after a quarrel and breakup?

1, finding a good opportunity and a good opportunity is the need of creation, which makes reconciliation full of ritual. Casual can't reflect sincerity, for example, with gifts as the lining, words are naturally sweeter and apologies are more acceptable. Of course, all apologies need to be fulfilled by the other party. The apology for non-performance is unilateral, and it is invalid if it is not echoed. 2. Pass on your changes. If it really changes, inheritance is what you need to consider. In particular, WeChat was deleted and the mobile phone was hacked, which was even more embarrassing. You deliberately create a chance encounter, but the other party detours. What should I do? Friends circle, phone calls, text messages, and even friends with friends have many ways to convey changes. You don't need to worry that he won't see your changes. So there are some things you must do first. You're already on your way to recovery. It's not the same as before. It's good enough. Are you worried that he won't see it? 3. Learn to empathize. If a woman wants a man to fall in love with you again, you need to learn to empathize. In other words, you should learn to think from the standpoint and angle of men. You can't break up without a word, and you can't be strict with men everywhere. You should learn to generate electricity with love and serve others with virtue. How to save your predecessor after quarreling and breaking up? 2 1. Save your predecessor's chat skills. If you want to save your predecessor, you must learn to establish good communication and exchanges with your predecessor. Many people may make some wrong moves because they don't know how to save their predecessors, but as a result, they push each other further and further. In fact, it is best to establish good communication with each other to save a person, so that you can better understand each other's psychology. 1, quietly warm up the interaction. At this time, you can slowly talk about the "good past" you have accumulated together. You can feel it, but don't blame it. "If it weren't for you ..." This sentence must not appear. If you want to find the wrong one, you can only find it from yourself. If the other person responds positively, you can say appropriately: If possible, I hope to go back to that happy time. I think I'm ready, and I won't let those bad things happen again ... 2. Not very simple questions, similar to people asking themselves if they can answer. Then there is no topic to talk about, but the topic has already started. So don't just say eat? How have you been recently? Are you busy? This kind of topic is the topic of people who can't chat, and it is not attractive. How to start a chat topic? Sure, ask some topics of interest to each other. Like going out for a walk recently? You have been to so-and-so place before. Do you have any special recommendations? Recently, a new coffee shop opened on XXX Road. I thought you said you wanted to take the barista certificate or something. Keep positive and enthusiastic during the chat, show your happy and optimistic side, and don't make the other person feel too bored. Chatting, I'd rather have no job than nothing. At the beginning of the recovery process, I can neither talk about feelings nor talk about the past. What should I do? Good morning/good night/what are you doing/eating? Of course not! You can chat with anyone, but the experience of chatting varies from person to person. Talking to some people is like torture; But talking to another person is like enjoying it. So at the point of chatting, you should ask yourself whether the experience you give others is torture or enjoyment. The best starting point of chatting is the other person's hobbies, which can meet the other person's emotional needs, and the other person will naturally be happy to chat with you. The understanding of each other's hobbies, of course, comes from your past getting along and understanding of ta. Second, the three manifestations that the ex still loves you. When the incumbent still loves you, you can actually find that the other person loves you through careful observation. Many people still have a lot of feelings for each other after breaking up. After all, it is not easy to forget after a person has invested in this relationship. 1, I don't like you. After breaking up with the opposite sex, girls are often eager to get a little security from ambiguity. But in reality, many couples fall in love with others just after breaking up in order to be angry with each other. This behavior is too childish. If he doesn't like you, he doesn't care who you are with. 2. The photos you sent before still have room for her or the photos you took when you were together have not been deleted; If you use the same screen name when you are in love, and you find that she hasn't changed for a long time, it means that this relationship is still very important to her, and you are willing to save memories together. 3. Her circle of friends does not block you. Although some women don't delete men after breaking up with them, she still doesn't want men to see the dynamics of her circle of friends. Maybe she doesn't care about men at all. She doesn't want men to see her latest progress. If your ex-girlfriend can open up her circle of friends to you, it means that she can't forget you. If you still love her, please get back together as soon as possible. Third, three tricks to save your predecessor When saving your predecessor, you can learn some skills to help you save each other. If you want to save a person, you need to make a lot of preparations for saving, so that you can save each other more smoothly. Sometimes people will step on many minefields when saving people, but it will be more difficult for you to save people. 1, to judge the reasons for breaking up, you need to think clearly. What caused you to break up? Can you solve this problem? What should you do if this problem can be solved? Or the other side's problem, are you willing to make some compromises? Is the other party willing to change? If these problems are not well solved, or not completely solved, then even after the reunification, the same problem will largely erupt again. 2. Show your personal charm properly and attract each other again. Many people think that after breaking up, it is their charm or doing something wrong. Actually, there's no need to do this. Lovers are attracted by your original charm from the beginning, so don't change it easily. Recognize your strengths and weaknesses, optimize your weaknesses, strengthen your strengths, constantly enhance your value, sublimate your charm, make friends appropriately, and take attractive photos. When the other person sees your brand-new temperament, it will naturally attract you again and unconsciously want to take a step closer to you. 3. Seize the opportunity to save your love. If you want to recover after breaking up, you'd better prove your sincerity to him with practical actions. For example, ask his brother about his recent situation, but pretend you don't care or you listen to him talk to you on his own initiative. Observe his whereabouts secretly and wait for an opportunity. If you find an opportunity to do it boldly, touch him with your heart and let him know that you always have him in your heart.