My wife and I have known each other for two years now. I love her very much, but my mother-in-law has been behaving badly in the past two years. I didn't know at first that I always regarded her as a

My wife and I have known each other for two years now. I love her very much, but my mother-in-law has been behaving badly in the past two years. I didn't know at first that I always regarded her as a good person. I'm glad to answer your question. I hope I can help you. I speak more directly. If everything is straight, it is difficult. I hope you can consider this problem from the overall situation. I think this is a good thing for you at present.

First of all, you typed so many words, and you had a lot of difficulties in your heart, so you wrote so many words. But I think this seems to be nonsense. I've read a lot of your words. I seem to have been listening to you say that your daughter-in-law has left, and your mother-in-law is so bad and has some complaints.

I think one thing you said is very important, that is, you and your daughter-in-law separated 1 month and 8 days. What was it like during this period? You haven't said if there is any connection between you. What is your wife's attitude now? Let me tell you something. It's easy to handle.

There is a saying that you are right. You are really a clumsy person. You like to say one thing, two things and go straight. But sometimes it may not solve the problem. Like you said, there is only one word difference between an oath and a lie. I can tell you clearly now that even a lie can turn into many beautiful sentences. Make her happy, and then the same.

Now let me ask you a question. Why do you take care of the children? Why did you put the child here? You don't even have a certificate now. This popular point is unmarried childbirth. Your wife is gone now. Children are a burden to the status quo. If you have a child, you have to take it with you in the future. It's stressful. Your mother-in-law has confidence. When your child is with your wife, you will have confidence, and your mother-in-law will have pressure. Now none of you have a certificate. If the child is left to you, your wife can still be good with others. You have no right to say that the child is your wife's, and your wife can not admit that the child is hers.

What is your mother-in-law's attitude now? Has it reached the point of irretrievable? You have to wait five years? Then get married with a new bride price? If so, I think it is an opportunity, a good opportunity. Doesn't that mean he told you to wait five years? This shows that he is praising you and never wants you to share it. There's a chance. This opportunity can make you a man again in the future. Do as I say if you like.

We should not only think from a height, but also use psychological tactics. Believe me, this tactic 100% will succeed. I hope you can do as I say.

We have to do one thing in several steps, not at once. Using a circuitous tactic is like saying that in ancient times, a conflict with the enemy might be considered a bad thing. But in other words, if there is no war, it is naturally impossible to expand territory.

The first step is the first step: if you still have contact with your wife, stop contact temporarily. Stop contact for a week. In the meantime, don't be too active, because I can feel from what you said that you are in a passive position now. If you are so passive and follow your mother-in-law, it will be difficult for you to raise your head in the future. Time doesn't need to last too long, and I don't contact my wife for half a month. In the meantime, your mother-in-law will definitely ask your wife if you have contacted her. If your wife says you haven't contacted her, her mother-in-law will think about not contacting her at first. No big deal. But after 15 days, she can't help it, believe me. Then, 15 days later, you don't need to contact her, just take the child to your mother-in-law's house, and I'll prepare for the worst here. Even after you go, it's still the same as before, and your wife will say, how did you think of this time? What have you been doing all this time? Or, your mother-in-law comes out to talk to you directly and satirize you. Remember never to get angry. At this time, you have to say that the child always cries every day after leaving his mother, and I can't take care of it well. Maybe I miss his mother. Let's bask in him. At this point, two things will happen. One is that your mother-in-law comes to see the children to make them happy, and the other is to continue to dig at you. I prefer the first one. If it is the second one, it doesn't matter, no matter which one, the result is the same. Is that you have to leave the child with your mother-in-law. If they like children, you can bend the rules and say that the children should be raised for a while, and I will come back and take them back later. Now the children need milk. If you don't want to take care of the child, you can say bluntly that the child needs nutrition and milk now, so let his mother take it for a while and I'll take it back later. The first step to success is to leave the children to the wife. Embarrassed or not, because there is a road behind me. If I am a little stiff at this time, I will feel stronger later.

Then there is the second step: don't contact your wife and don't ask how the child is while the child is at your mother-in-law's house. It's no use. The baby will be fine. Don't worry. If you continue to call your wife and ask your children how they are, they will still think you are stingy. That's what women do. When you miss her, she wants to hold you and find fault everywhere. If you act like a man, she will find that she needs you as a backer. Such a man is a sense of security in a woman's heart. During this time, even if your wife contacts you, it is no problem to say a few words. If you want to come back, come back. If it's cold over there, go home or something Say a few words of concern, but it is impossible to contact her actively. She contacts you, you say, she doesn't contact you, you wait. On the way, if your mother-in-law wants her child back, you also insist that the child needs nutrition. I can't take care of it well, and I have to go to work every day. This situation will last for 1 month and 15 days. For the next 15 days, you should completely isolate your wife from your mother-in-law. Come to the door and refuse if you don't answer the phone. The more anxious she is, the greater your success rate will be.

Then comes the third and final step. Success depends on whether you have done everything I said before. If you can achieve 70%, I think there is no problem at all. The two-month deadline for children to let go of your mother-in-law is up, so you have to act. I will go to my mother-in-law's house in person that day, dress up neatly and buy something, such as fruit. If your father-in-law is at home, you can buy some cigarettes and wine. Just buy whatever you want, and remember to buy some milk powder or something for your child. The reason is to look after the children. I said I was going to see the children, which means taking my wife back with me. After entering the house, you should say, Mom, I've come to see the child, how is the child these days, and then ask your wife how she is now. You can say all these things, right? Don't go up there and act like you're taking your wife back, bit by bit. Then you have to say that it is not easy for your wife to bring up a child now, and you have to buy milk powder or something. No one takes care of her, worrying that her nutrition can't keep up. Better go home. If your wife or your mother-in-law still doesn't agree to go back to your home at this time, it's because you didn't do what I said. But it doesn't matter, any problem is a good thing, and there is no good thing if it is not solved. If you still don't agree, the child can't take it away if she puts in a good word at her house. Stay at your mother-in-law's house and never contact her. This time, if you stick to it for a month, you will be fine. Or I still don't agree, then I'll come for a month. If I don't agree this time, it's impossible. Leave me a message if you don't agree.

In the meantime, your wife will quarrel with your mother-in-law Your mother-in-law will also wonder if she did something wrong. Originally, I separated the two children, but now the family is not like home, which is my fault. There are many children. After that, it is not easy to find someone else, and it is not easy to have children to follow. She began to want your wife to come back and live with you.

In fact, these are all psychological pressures. In fact, to put it simply, whether you can find them or not does not depend on whether you have children. Mainly personal ability, just psychological pressure. Don't worry, there will be no problem.

No matter what trouble you encounter in the middle, the ending is happy. Your mother-in-law will not easily take your wife to her house in the future. So I said, these are nothing, all good things. Do as I say. Although I have done so many actions, the purpose is to make you two beautiful. Don't have too many factors to interfere with you two. Do as I say this time.