My future and emotional problems, people who think they have their own opinions are not willing to have fun, I need advice! ! !

The following is my experience. I hope it helps you. This may be unbelievable, but it's true. You can also listen to it as a story ...

I am 25 years old. I have worked in a state-owned enterprise for ten years. Of course, I was less than 16 years old when I joined the work. You may not believe it, but it's true. When I first started to work, I remember very clearly that I worked 15 hours a day for the first month and didn't rest for three months. I often work late into the night (combining brain and physical strength) and get paid in the first month.

I don't think you will believe it. In fact, the present situation in China is like this. There are many people who can work, but there are few employment opportunities.

I worked for three months without a day off. After three months, the salary will be 300 yuan, lasting 18 months. 300 a month. You may say that it is absolutely illegal: suspected of employing child labor, extending working hours, and employment that does not meet national wage standards. ...

Yes, I admit all this, but this is society! We can only face it, then adapt, and then develop.

I am currently a department manager of this state-owned enterprise. I think when I first joined the work, my education was lower than yours, my labor intensity was much higher than that of a tour guide, and my experience and knowledge were not as rich as yours. Fortunately, I survived.

So I summed up a truth: there is no causal relationship between the level of education and the level of ability, and there is no necessary relationship between today's high education and tomorrow's ability. So you don't have to worry about your education.

Of course, no matter which company interviews, our company is no exception, but I think since we don't have outstanding talents, we have to make up for them by diligence. If you love any industry, no matter what position it is, even if it is a handyman, you should strive to get this position and then seek better development. Of course, you should do your job well in the position you are applying for, and then consider the development. Otherwise, you can only be a fly crawling on the glass-there is light but no future! "

I hope that what I have said above will be helpful to the relationship between your work and academic qualifications, and will also inspire your future development.

Let's talk about feelings. I'll just explain my point of view. I am not responsible for being wrong for personal reference and misleading, because emotional things have been entangled since human society. ...

First of all, I'm married. To tell the truth, because I am a man, I want to advise you that men will change (male compatriots will accuse me of betraying men), and men's feelings will come and go quickly, so it is a good thing that you rejected your online friend (that friend should not scold me). I believe time is the best way to prove everything. If that netizen friend has a sincere heart, he will also give birth to an eternal heart. He will move in the direction he thinks is right. Maybe you will spark again in generate on the street corner. Don't be friends just because someone professes, or you will lose many real friends.

Of course, if you really don't want to ruin your relationship with your current boyfriend, you should handle things between two men. As for their meeting, it's stupid (sorry, my words are a bit explicit), but two men love a woman at the same time. If two men meet at this time, can they remain rational? Can you talk calmly and solve the problem? Will you be in a good mood when you see them arguing, refuting or fighting? So it's better not to meet. It's not too late for everyone to meet again after you have established a clear relationship with one of them or a third party other than these two.

I say this because, first of all, I have been chasing my lover for eight years. Although we often quarrel and bicker now, this is life. Where can couples live a life of mutual respect? Secondly, my wife has a good relationship with her ex-boyfriend, often calling or texting, and sometimes going out to eat together (only the two of them, not me). I think it's normal, as long as you have a good grasp, what's not? His ex-boyfriend is also married, and we often eat together, talk about the past, and talk about the story of romantic nights in the rainy season ... which is a aftertaste of the past.

As long as we trust each other, we can love ourselves. In fact, the emotional world is vast. Didn't Hugo say that the ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky?

Maybe I have been confused at work like you, so I understand your mood now.

Maybe I've been lost in feelings like you, so I know exactly how you feel now.

Of course, I must stop at 23 like you, so I want to tell you that life is long. ...

To sum up, judging from our ordinary life, since we live in a certain corner of society, we are not qualified to complain about the unfairness given by the sun. A street without street lamps will never be without street lamps. I'll pick you up with a flashlight first, and I'm sure I can give you directions:

Work, spread your imaginary wings towards your dreams!

Feelings, with the passage of time, one of the two people will finally stand by and wait for you to enter the sacred palace!