Never send an expression pack to your girlfriend casually. ...

It is said that 80% of boys in love have had such doubts:

Why is your girlfriend angry? Why is your girlfriend angry again? Why is your girlfriend angry again?

The remaining 20% ... just don't know that my girlfriend is angry.

What is most like a girlfriend in the world is anything angry/? Weibo da pettitoes institute

The fuse to ignite your girlfriend's small temper may be your sentence "drink more hot water";

Maybe you gave her a Barbie pink lipstick as a gift on her birthday (well, I know you really can't tell the color number);

It may be a series of expression packs that you find humorous and lovely;

Don't make such jokes when your girlfriend is in a bad mood.

Don't say fancy expression packs, even the most basic expressions are hidden.

How many small emotions are hidden in a smile:

How many speechless into a string.

How many people spent a sweet day, but turned over in the last "good night" and didn't care (really, they didn't use the following love):

Boys, don't be wronged yet.

In those years, because of the expression pack, it may not be that girls deliberately find fault.

Male friends, please use words carefully.

"Don't just send emoticons to your girlfriend."

Behind this precious experience is not only the "blood and tears lessons" of countless male compatriots, but also the difference in thinking patterns between the two sexes.

Professor Laura Jones of Wayne State University did a study to investigate the familiarity and evaluation of 70 emoticons between men and women.

The results show that men and women have different views on emoticons.

First of all, women use emoticons to a higher degree and frequency than men. In other words, women may like and use Chinese characters more than men.

So when girls chat, they even use expression packs to communicate all the time.

A grumpy panda head is standard in many girls' expression packs? /Weibo @ Jingjing Jingjing Institute.

So, if you send a long message to your girlfriend and only receive an expression pack, don't be disappointed.

She may not be perfunctory, but simply thinks it is better to reply with an expression pack (but it is not recommended for male students to imitate).

In addition to the frequency and degree of use, the study also found that women are more sensitive to the meaning of expressions.

Women are born with stronger emotional recognition ability and are very sensitive to nonverbal expressions, including expressions.

Faced with neutral and negative expression packs, they tend to give more negative comments than men.

Therefore, when sending an expression pack to your girlfriend, you must be cautious and cautious.

For example, as a lovely straight man, you want to express the pleasure of chatting with your girlfriend, and you sent a message:

Then, you may be on the verge of making her angry.

Because in the eyes of women, its meaning may be more negative.

The simple and honest smirk in your eyes is more like "perfunctory smirk", "I'm mocking you" and "I don't know what to say, just play dumb".

If, in order to show your innocence, you send this expression again:

At this point in the conversation, what you have done is like a textbook.

Therefore, it is recommended that male friends, when chatting with their girlfriends, send as few emoticons as possible.

When you want to play games, don't perfunctory your girlfriend with words.

Otherwise, you may suffer not only from games, but also from love.

Under the gender cognitive differences of expression packs, the reserve of expression packs for men and women has also been divided.

More and more boys begin to use soft and lovely expression packs, and there is basically no negative expression from images to words.

Girls, on the other hand, like the simple and rude panda head more and more.

It is worth noting that this cognitive difference about expression packs also has certain preconditions.

When family and friends communicate, the gender difference in the use of expression packs is very obvious.

When communicating with superiors, colleagues and others, this difference becomes minimal.

After all, everyone knows that you can't just send emoticons in the work group.

Emoji pack is not a universal language.

Speaking of the complex meaning of Yan characters, I believe many people will suddenly think of this classic smile:

In our eyes, it, like "Hehe", represents ridicule, dissatisfaction, silence, contempt and indifference to you. ...

One expression is worth a thousand words.

In the eyes of elders, the proper curvature of the corners of the mouth fully shows the restraint, courtesy, friendliness and atmosphere of adults.

When the teacher sends out such a string of smiles, please calculate the psychological shadow area of the students/? Weibo Hohai University

Behind the interpretation of the world, it is not the elders who are "behind the times", but the cognitive differences brought about by age.

In the physiological structure of young people, negative information is more concerned than positive information.

This kind of "special attention" to negative information began to form from a very young age and gradually disappeared after middle age, and the attention to positive information occupied the peak.

Therefore, expression packs that are very friendly to middle-aged people have become a must for young people.

In addition to gender and age, different countries, regions and cultural environments will also have an impact on the use of Yan characters.

The most obvious is the preference for using Yan characters.

According to a study published on 20 17, the favorite expression of French people is love, while Argentina and Colombia prefer "?" , America, Brazil and other places, right? "There are soft spots.

Different countries' preference for using Yan Wen/University of Michigan

The study also found that in countries with high levels of individualism, such as Australia and France, people prefer to use happy expressions.

Countries with close interpersonal relationships, such as Mexico, Chile, Colombia, etc., use more expressions to express negative emotions.

In addition to the frequency of use, different countries have obvious differences in understanding the same expression.

The most commonly used "laughing and crying" face in the world.

It is the "Oxford Dictionary's Word of the Year" in 20 15 years, and it is also the first time that the Oxford Dictionary has granted the word of the year to an expression.

In China, most netizens interpret it as "dumbfounding".

Arab countries use it to express extreme sadness.

The official explanation for it is: "Tears of joy".

The expression of arms crossed:

In our opinion, this means "nothing" and "nothing".

In the eyes of Indians, it means "don't mess with me".

In Spanish, it often stands for "Let's play Kung Fu"-do you have any misunderstanding about China Kung Fu?

And this smiling poop:

In the eyes of some people in Canada and South Africa, it means "chocolate ice cream".

Something like this:

In Japan, it means "good luck": because in Japanese, the pronunciation of "poop" is the same as "good luck".

It also has a richer meaning because of homophonic, and? .

In the eyes of other countries, this may be an ordinary peach.

However, in China, because of its English pronunciation of peach, the majority of netizens have turned "peach" into a synonym for "you are thinking about eating fart".

Various use environments and people endow the same image with different meanings, and also make the expression more inclusive and rich.

For example, in a batch of new emoticons released two months ago, "bubble tea" was on the list.

Besides milk tea, jiaozi and chopsticks with strong China flavor, we can also find sushi, hamburgers, spaghetti and burritos in emoticons. ...

A steady stream of new expressions enriches people's choices when chatting.

It also makes people feel the richness of the world and the diversity of culture in their daily lives.

Although the expression pack is good, don't rely on it.

Contemporary people can't chat without smiling words.

The expression pack is really easy to use.

Sometimes, it takes a long string of words to convey emotions, and an expression can easily overfulfil the task.

They can also give emotion to the words on the screen and make your emotions more appropriate.

An expression that contains many meanings such as "delicious, full and satisfied"/Weibo @

Fighting pictures adds a lot of fun to chatting, but sometimes it also brings trouble.

According to a study published in Trends in Cognitive Science, it is generally believed that emoji can "reduce the fuzziness of discourse", but sometimes they can have the opposite effect. ?

"For example, the emoji of smiling and crying, I never know what people mean when they use it: are they laughing at me? Or are you playing tricks on me? Still crying? Or are they satirizing me? "

Not only expression packs, but sometimes the words on the screen can be confusing.

The "hehe" sent by the elders, even if it is really gratifying, looks a bit strange.

Girlfriend's "good night ~" has become "good night", which makes people wonder, "Is she angry?"

The proposal issued by the working group, the leader's reply to a "well" will make people worry, is it a mistake? ...

There is no tone, no expression, no body language, and there seems to be something missing in the communication on the screen.

In the Japanese movie "Five centimeters per second", there is a line that goes like this:

"Even if we send a thousand text messages, the distance between our hearts can only be about 1 cm."

The expression pack is lively and interesting, but what is even more memorable is the human touch of laughing off the screen.

In the past winter, people realized the helplessness of being separated from their loved ones.

It also makes people wake up after a long period of social isolation: this small screen is just a comfort after all.

What can't be reproduced is the laughter in the ear, the deep affection between the eyebrows and eyes, and the temperature in the arms.

Simple eyes, upturned corners of the mouth and playful ending are much more vivid than the cold symbols and words on the screen.

Don't let your dependence on Yan Wen deprive you of your ability to express your feelings.

What you want to say most should be said by yourself.

Between a smile and a smile, sincerity goes without saying.

On this rare spring day, let your fingers rest and put down your mobile phone that you have held for a winter.

When you meet your beloved, call your parents and say some touching sweet words.