International students fall in love, and their parents are blind date in China.

How difficult is it to fall in love abroad? Look at international students? Leftover men and women? You will know the proportion. As a result, the parents at home were anxious and began to help children who were far away from home find partners. ? After studying abroad for three or four years, all the people who came back were older and didn't hit you? An appointment? What about the object? ? But in the end, the parents found out that the children always opposed me in choosing the object. ?

Mom and Dad: Domestic rush? On behalf of blind date?

Helen, a college English teacher, went to England to study six years ago. ? At that time, I was a part-time Chinese teacher in a small Chinese training class, and I met my current husband during the teaching process. He likes Chinese very much and often asks me questions. Later, he sent me back to my apartment every night. The more we talked, the more congenial we became, and therefore we gained love. ? Now, she and her British husband have settled in Shanghai and have a happy family.

However, a happy foreign love like Helen is rare. Are there many international students and foreigners? Call? . Seeing that the children are getting bigger and bigger, parents in China are anxious.

At a blind date resort? In People's Park, every day, many parents hang around with signs listing their children's conditions, and a large part of them are parents of international students.

The reporter interviewed a woman at random whose daughter is currently studying in New Zealand. ? My daughter went abroad late. After working for four years, she said that she would go abroad to study and save her strength. Seeing that she will be 30 when she comes back next year, I haven't found a suitable one abroad. I'm anxious. My relatives and friends are also supporting me. When I am free, I will look around. Maybe I will meet a suitable boy. ? The lady said that helping her daughter find a partner to catch up with various venues is busier than going to work before.

International student: My marriage is my own decision.

Compared with their parents' anxiety, international students seem to be much more peaceful.

Zhao Xin, 27, has been studying in Japan for more than 1 year, and is about to complete her doctoral program and prepare to return to China next year. When talking about personal problems, he generously expressed his love view: everything goes with fate.

? My parents are more anxious than me and keep asking me how I'm doing, but I think I have to meet the right person before I can consider getting married. Moreover, there are many Japanese students studying in China, all of whom are older than me, and they are very laid-back. ?

Miss Li, who works in a foreign company, has just returned from studying in Britain this year. She is not interested in men introduced by her parents. ? My parents always thought that I was deliberately against them, but in fact, I still want to do my own love and marriage. ? Miss Li said that the person she was looking for should not have a high academic background, and the economic conditions should not be too good. They can take care of each other, as long as two people speak the same language. ? Of course, it is more perfect to know romance and have a little petty bourgeoisie. ?

Matchmaking: Women studying abroad are more likely to marry foreigners.

The reporter visited several matchmaking agencies in Shanghai and found that from the registration situation, most of the people who returned to China to find objects were male students. ? Once a girl goes abroad, she is likely to marry a foreigner. ? Senior of the matchmaking agency? Matchmaker? Tell reporters that the space for boys to find objects abroad is much smaller than that for girls. ?

However, men studying abroad are still very gunmen in China because of their experience in studying abroad. ? Maybe foreign girls can't find the charm of these male students from China. After all, Chinese and westerners have different personalities and different cultural languages. ?

Most girls who have obtained master's degree or above overseas are not less than 28 years old and want to find a partner who is about 35 years old and has strong economic strength, but most of the corresponding men are married or tend to be younger girls. ? Overseas background, economic strength and education have become their high threshold, which has put pressure on many men who are actually not bad. ?

Mom and Dad, please let go!

In the bustling crowd of People's Park, the aunt whose daughter is studying in New Zealand told the reporter: You see, my daughter's condition is really not bad, but now there are fewer men with matching conditions. Of course we are in a hurry. ?

When asked about the child's wishes abroad, the aunt was silent: the child doesn't discuss with me, and he can't say a few words every time he calls. If she's looking for a foreign man, we don't want it.

The same thing happened in the newspaper. Every day, many parents call and recommend their children to the "Qiaozhiqiao" page. A mother said that her daughter had just returned from studying abroad, so let's interview her daughter and go on a blind date? Image advertising? . The reporter then tried to contact the young lady, but neither text message nor phone call could be reached. Late the next night, the reporter received her short message:? Sorry, my mother contacted you without telling you, and I didn't want to go to the page myself. ?

Go to the matchmaking agency to register and hold the sign of blind date to participate in various social activities instead of her daughter. What did the parents do? Something special? Are children really ungrateful? Not necessarily. How many overseas students have the most contacts with reporters? Hate marriage? Or? Anxiety? Heart, their feelings are different from those of their parents, more westernized and more open.

It's not easy to raise a child. After studying abroad for so many years, parents found that their children could not communicate with themselves and drifted away.

In the final analysis, the son-in-law and daughter-in-law that parents fancy are not necessarily close lovers of their children. Instead of causing unnecessary friction, why not learn to let go? Since your child is excellent, please have more confidence and patience in her/his marriage.