After breaking up with her boyfriend, girls know that her boyfriend is busy with work and seldom cares about herself, so they want to live a better life with themselves in the future.

Love brain meets workaholic: What should my boyfriend do if he is busy at work and ignores me?

Whether it's an innocent idiot or a woman galloping in the workplace, she is unhappy about one thing: her boyfriend always says that she is busy with work and doesn't take the initiative to find me.

Little fairies always want their boyfriends to be dead set and on call, so much the better.

In fact, most girls have had this crazy idea.

Looking back now, isn't this madness, the kind of boyfriend who has to look at his mobile phone 20 times a minute and doesn't return messages, the legendary love brain?

The madness of "I love you enough to kill you" and the persistence of my boyfriend who can't do anything without sending a message one day and turns on his mobile phone 200 times a minute.

For a long time, it was called "Love Brain"!

The love brain pursues love first, and all its energy and thoughts are put on love. Once they can't get effective feedback from their partners, they will fall into self-doubt.

Then, if you happen to meet a workaholic boyfriend, how can a girl with brains in love save herself?

First of all, it must be clear that if your boyfriend doesn't take the initiative to find you, it is probably because you are not that important.

Career men generally have a strong purpose, no scheming and no entertainment. For them, work is the greatest happiness. So the brain in love need not be sad, you are not important, and all the people in his life who have nothing to do with work are not that important. For them, career always comes first.

How to improve your importance?

On campus, under the stimulation of hormones, boys are easily moved by sweet faces, so it doesn't hurt to talk about campus love with you. However, when they enter the society, little love is no longer the whole of their life, and men hope to create a career to conquer the world. At this time, they need a female general who can fight the world together.

I chatted with my best friend two days ago and talked about my first love in college. She gave a wry smile. At that time, her boyfriend only accompanied him for dinner once a week, which made him look like an emperor's favorite. At that time, she didn't understand it very well. Later, as she grew older, she gradually realized that he was a purposeful person. She started her career planning very early, but she was still a little immature, like a Qiong Yao-style girlfriend who was an assistant. Their relationship naturally didn't last long.

How to get along with workaholics and stay passionate?

1. Be someone he can talk to.

This kind of man's life is completely focused on his work. If you are also an enterprising person, you will naturally have three matching views and the same topic. If you happen to be a colleague, you can disturb him aboveboard through your work: Dear, what do you think of this project? I want to hear your opinions.

In this way, in his eyes, you not only have the ability, but also care about his opinion.

Even if there is a big gap in your industry, you can save your energy in your spare time and learn some basic knowledge of their industry. Wait until the next date and chat casually. Will bring him unexpected surprises.

2. The problem of replying to information

In fact, girls really care that boys don't return messages at work. Some people think that it is not a waste of time to reply to messages, and their strength to go to the toilet will be restored. Is to use work as an excuse.

So speaking of which, have you ever considered why men would rather go to the bathroom than return your messages?

That's because once you reply, it's hard to stop. Either you are too high to stop; Or endless complaints or questions. What was originally a simple chat turned into a vicious circle.

In this case, how can a man reply to you voluntarily?

Here are some tips for replying to messages.

Don't complain when he is busy with his work and ignores you. You can hypnotize him in another way:

It doesn't matter. Husband is busy just to make money and send flowers to the baby. How can I blame you?

In the long run, his brain will be implanted with the message: I make money to send flowers to my baby, and I have a responsibility to my baby, so that even workaholics will be hypnotized to love you more and more.

Chatting is a particularly good way to kill time. Think about whether the day passes in a hurry every time I chat with my little sister. The same is true at work. At this time, WeChat chat is particularly easy to interfere with ideas. Your man is also afraid of being tempted, and he accidentally said it was the end of time.

Therefore, if you have to send WeChat during working hours, it's best to be brief and cold, giving the other person a feeling of going back and reducing his psychological burden.

After work, it is your battlefield.

Mature girlfriends should be a mixture of independent women and sexy goblins.

Everyone is busy at work, and a little indifference is necessary; If you are still cold after work, there is something wrong with your brain. You know, the president is very busy. If you are still so cold when they send messages, he can turn around and go back to work.

So, in the private time after work, don't become a little devil and indulge in coquetry?

Finally, draw the key points. If you love brains and want to get rid of workaholics, you must first understand the unique attributes of overbearing presidents, and don't feel sorry for yourself.

Secondly, we should strive to improve ourselves, have an independent personality and career, and actively cultivate hobbies, so that an intimate love can last for a long time;

Finally, stocking at work and keeping in captivity after work!