What do you think of girlfriends sending ambiguous messages to others?

I want to calm myself for the first time! After all, it's just a text message! Then first determine whether the other person is her best friend. It's too common for two good women to call each other husbands. If it's a man, I'll just ask! Ask her what she thinks! However, this is just clear, usually in this case, it is difficult for me to continue to be with her! This kind of thing either happened before falling in love with me (that is, I didn't care much about how ambiguous I was before), otherwise it would be difficult to get rid of my heart. After all, this is what happened on her own initiative! This situation is in her nature. In her opinion, language ambiguity is not an emotional affair, or she has never had "non-single self-control" and is not single. Whether she is married or not, she should have self-knowledge. What she did before may need to be avoided now! For example, go out to play alone with other opposite sex, especially men who are interested in themselves! In addition, try to avoid ambiguous contact with other languages and the opposite sex. There is no such thing as "he treats me like a buddy, not like a woman". You can say that when you are single, but not when you are in love. There is no reason. This is the obligation after two people fall in love! There is no "he is only 18 years old, only 20 years old! I thought he was a child before 12 years old, and later said that this reason was ridiculous! What don't 20-year-olds understand now? Then can I hug my little female colleague and tell you that? Of course, the above men should also do it! In fact, whether the feelings are single-minded, whether the other party is too possessive and too narrow-minded! You just need to help your own behavior, assuming that the other person has done it, and then think about how you feel in your heart, and you will understand! Therefore, personally unacceptable! Send her a message: "If I'm not your shoulder to lean on, we don't have to force it, and you don't have to pretend. I will forget and stop lying! "