Why do women cheat?

First of all, from a psychological point of view, everyone has the psychology of liking the new and hating the old. Psychologists have done an experiment: put a male monkey and a female monkey in a big cage and observe their mating frequency. Therefore, the mating frequency is the highest on the first day, and gradually decreases. After a week of observation, mating became less and less; At this time, the female monkey was taken out and put into the new female monkey, and the mating frequency increased as before. People also need new sexual partners. Therefore, the infidelity of women (men) is not entirely due to moral decay. Throughout history, most people who cheat are successful, highly educated and even cultivated. Secondly, judging from the current social atmosphere, it also provides people with a social basis for derailment. Nowadays, women (men) have lovers, confidants and sexual partners, which is no longer the object of people's spit, or even an honor. Many people think it is an indispensable way of life and a reflection of improving the quality of life. Modern people are no longer victims of feudal society. They are very concerned about their physical and psychological needs, and they are very open. The popular slogan is to do what they want. Third, ideas from people. Nowadays, people are increasingly indifferent to the concept of chastity. Young men and women born in the 1980s and 1990s no longer attach importance to the word chastity. Nowadays, unmarried women, from middle school students to college students, are very familiar with sex, and they are also very casual. Some junior high school students and even primary school students have stolen "forbidden fruit". It is nothing new for college students to find a one-night stand, let alone live together. The university has allocated it, so it is natural to say "bye-bye". Unmarried men and women can pursue sexual satisfaction. What do you mean by married people? Of course, the infidelity of married women does not rule out the following reasons: 1, loneliness and loneliness. Mainly due to work reasons, husband and wife often live in two places, and the husband does not often communicate with his wife and cultivate feelings. After a long time, it will inevitably make them emotionally indifferent. The wife has a lonely heart. At this time, if there is a suitable opposite sex, it is easy for the wife to have an affair. 2. Revenge. Mostly because the husband is philandering outside and crazy in love, once he is found by his wife, he is exposed. Husband and wife often have fierce quarrels, and it is not surprising that the wife is angry and vindictive. 3. Superior conditions. Mostly because her wife is beautiful, has superior education and social status, and is surrounded by many suitors. It's easy for a wife to feel unworthy of herself. This will make her naturally cheat. 4. The life of husband and wife is not harmonious. This type is mostly because the husband has sexual dysfunction and can't live a normal husband and wife life. But sex life is a very important part of a couple's life. Or because her husband is busy with work, she can't be warm and considerate. Over time, it will lead to disharmony between husband and wife. This will bore her. So as to seek new spiritual sustenance outside. Fourth, women who want to prove their charm still marry and have children, especially from the age of 27-28, women gradually turn from girls to young women, and they begin to doubt whether they are still young and attractive to men. At this time, women also began to question life and resist aging. Especially those women who work hard for their husbands or give up their careers, they always feel that they have missed the best years of their lives. It seems that I have never enjoyed life. Therefore, when they see men who like them, they want to learn the plots in books and movies to have an extramarital affair. Fifth, adding passionate sex life to love is often ignored by couples who are submerged in the daily chores of marriage, but it is also an essential thing and should be placed in a less important position. However, women are always in a hurry, although they are afraid of being regarded as dissolute women by their husbands, or when women need more sex life and can't satisfy it at home, having an affair has become a new attempt to have fun. I just want to get rid of the boring life. When both men and women feel that life has become the same, she will begin to yearn for change and adventure. These women are not looking for marriage outside, let alone trying to get rid of the existing marriage, but just to adjust their ordinary life. Influenced by modern social atmosphere, let's experience the feeling of extramarital affairs. Life is like this. It creates opportunities for men and creates the same opportunities for women. When men choose women, men are also being chosen by women. Men cheat women, and women cheat men. Hehe/The world is so wonderful.