In the emotional world, what should I say if I want to break up euphemistically?

Some couples in the process of love, through in-depth understanding of each other, find that they are not suitable, and the other person is not the one they are looking for, so it is normal to break up. Most of them didn't break up, they didn't have any feelings at all, but they just stopped loving each other. In this case, breaking up suddenly is somewhat hurtful and seemingly unreasonable, but if it is always difficult to say it, it will be difficult to end it. So when two people don't love each other, how to break up is actually quite difficult to grasp and control, so how to say it euphemistically between couples? You can do this without hurting others and end this relationship as soon as possible.

First,? Analogy? law

For example, in the breakup stage, we often tell each other some love breakup stories that are very close and similar to ourselves, and then let the other party give information feedback on these stories. After judging and analyzing the feedback from the other party, make a good plan for the next step, gradually guide and transition to the direction of breaking up, step by step, and gradually deepen, so that the other party can be inspired and understand. When using this method, we must remember not to find some examples in the wild, and then tell each other clearly in expect the unexpected.

In this way, the other party may regard it as a story told when you chat, and often you will not pay special attention to it, and the effect is not satisfactory. The best way is to control your emotions when both sides are happy and easy to get along with. When you meet any suitable scenes and plots, you can use these scenes to tell each other stories similar to this situation, which will form strong differences and strengthen your consciousness, thus attracting each other's attention.

The other party will pay attention to your intention to say these words, and want to know your purpose and intention to say these words, either asking you or thinking and considering your motivation to say these words in your mind. At first, it may not be effective immediately and achieve the expected effect, but over time, this situation will attract the attention and vigilance of the other party and will soon be realized. In order to achieve good and quick results, the best way to tell the story of breaking up is to tell what happened around you.

In this way, the other party will quickly make an analogy and understand it quickly, thus getting twice the result with half the effort. When the other person understands and knows your thoughts, he will seriously reflect on the relationship between you, consider the feelings of the two people, and will take corresponding words and deeds to show you some performances, gradually alienating you, so that both of them will know why, and then naturally break up, without bringing blows and injuries to people, but also with dignity.

Second,? Hint? law

As the saying goes? Listen to the sound of gongs and drums and talk? In the process of communication, people will judge other people's words, not only to listen to the main meaning expressed in the other person's words, but also to pay attention to whether there are hints or hints, and then through comprehensive judgment, we can know the real intention of the other person. Similarly, if couples don't want to continue, they can also take advantage of this characteristic of people and consciously mix some elements that want to break up in language communication when they have a decision to break up.

Give the other person some clever hints so that the other person can hear the breakup in your past information? Between the lines? Not only that, you can even artificially put forward some inappropriate phenomena when you are together in the process of communicating with each other, so that the other party can answer, or you can say some phenomena that will happen when couples are about to break up, and then use wit to relate to you or innuendo, and even make some possibilities and assumptions that make you ordinary friends from time to time.

After these hints, as long as the other person is a person with normal intelligence, you can quickly understand and understand your intentions and ideas of these hints. When the other person knows your inner thoughts, he will be psychologically prepared, and slowly start to keep his distance from you in words and deeds, and may even adopt them? Deal with a man as he deals with you? Way, also give you the same hint, give each other a chance to buffer, gradually put everything down, slowly alienate each other, and finally break up calmly, so that it is neither abrupt nor embarrassing, but also good to get together.

Third,? Third party?

Speaking of. Third party? Don't misinterpret and misunderstand this. What does it say here? Third party? Not what you understand in your daily life, but the kind that you get involved in other people's feelings and families? Third party? Not because I want to break up and find a friend of the opposite sex. The third party here refers to your relatives and friends, or people who are closely related to your life. When you have no feelings and want to break up, but it is difficult for the other party to bring it up, you can go through these people.

Express your idea of breaking up as a third party, and let them pass on their wishes to each other as intermediaries and media. Because of the messenger, they met from beginning to end without embarrassment, and both sides got the final result conveniently and quickly. Both sides broke up with dignity and achieved the expected purpose and desired result. There are many people who use this method in life.

Besides, what if we don't want to use this? Third party? Power, so as not to make a noisy gossip, we can use modern popular communication tools as? Third party? Then, in the communication through the network, two people express their idea of breaking up to each other through the expressions, tone, attitude and response time limit in the network communication, so that the other party can clearly experience and perceive it, and at the same time, they can also do it in the initiative, enthusiasm and time period of network communication, which is completely different from lovers.

Even a perfunctory attitude can't even reach the communication status of ordinary people, so that the other party can quickly feel that because the network is a virtual environment, both of them are at the other end of the network, so that without the participation of others, through the network media, without discomfort or too much psychological burden and pressure, they can say goodbye well, so that the two sides can break up quietly without interest and achieve their respective goals and results. There is no doubt about it.