How to deal with the relationship between wife and ex? Is it normal for her to have contact with her ex?

No matter whether it is a man or a woman, after marriage, we should draw a clear line with past feelings. It would be very irresponsible for you to lose contact with your predecessor now. So, what should you do if your wife has an affair with your ex?

How to deal with the relationship between wife and ex?

First of all, let the other party realize the seriousness of this matter. Find out why they broke up in the first place, because of their parents or because they had no feelings. If they choose to break up because they have no feelings, what is the purpose of reconnecting? If it is caused by external factors, tell her clearly that you mind, even if you love her, you can't accept her contact with your ex-boyfriend, which will greatly affect your feelings. In the long run, your marriage may come to an end. Let her feel the seriousness of the matter.

Second, give each other enough trust. Sometimes it's because of my distrust, such as checking my mobile phone, checking QQ and even monitoring and tracking. These behaviors will arouse the antipathy of the other party, draw narrow conclusions for you, and don't want to hear your thoughts on this matter. Therefore, you must first create a trustworthy feeling for your wife. When she is doing many things, she will not deliberately avoid you, but will take the initiative to communicate with you. This will be very helpful for the improvement of your relationship.

Finally, keep your bottom line. Men want to spoil their wives, but that doesn't mean connivance. Tell the other person that you have your principles and your bottom line. I hope that while you trust each other, they can also give you enough respect. Put her in the other person's position and let her talk about how she felt when her behavior was changed to yours. Some things can be tolerated, and some things must be kept to their own bottom line and cannot be tolerated.

Is it normal for a wife to have contact with her ex?

It depends. Generally speaking, it is abnormal.

Personally, I don't think it's necessary to contact my ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend. So if you think your wife is in contact with her ex-boyfriend, you can honestly say to her: What do you need to contact your ex-boyfriend? If there is nothing to contact, it can show that you don't like her contact with her ex-boyfriend. If she is unhappy, or has any opinions about you, you should tell her that these are ex-boyfriends. Why is it worth asking her, because the ex was not satisfied with her gift? In addition, don't be too tough, try to convince each other. After all, you are unhappy because you like her. It's your wife, right?

Can you accept that your wife is in contact with her ex?

0 1: xu teacher, married at the age of 28.

I can't accept this behavior. I have met many people who still keep in touch with their ex after marriage. They kept breaking up and finally turned their lovers green. Let's talk about a woman who really loves you. She will refuse to have an affair with her ex.

If a woman still has contact with her ex, it means that she still has feelings for her ex. It is not surprising that this feeling has revived. Those who keep in touch with their predecessors after marriage have unfinished business besides disrespecting themselves. A woman who breaks up with her ex is absolutely unforgivable.

The more you indulge her behavior, the greener your head will be.

02: Teacher Chang, married at the age of 30.

I really can't accept such behavior. I just trusted my wife too much at first, and I thought there was nothing wrong with my wife contacting her ex once in a while. I didn't care because of my promise to my wife.

Later, it developed that she often deleted WeChat chat records, and her whereabouts were secretive. She made an excuse not to go home, and then they actually cheated together.

If it weren't for the children, I really want a divorce. This is her last chance, and she promises not to contact her ex again. Those exes who are still friends after breaking up are here to hurt other people's family happiness.

03: Miss Li, 32 years old, married.

I can't accept it. After my wife and I got married, her predecessor added her WeChat, and the conversation was rather ambiguous. She called my wife my wife and my wife's mother my mother-in-law. I was very angry when I saw the chat record afterwards and asked my wife to delete her predecessor. My wife said I was narrow-minded.

Later, my wife promised me that I would never talk to my ex again, but once they went out for dinner, I found them quarreling again when I came back. My wife promised that I would never see my ex again. Now she has broken her word and I have lost trust in her. What are the benefits of a woman who is still having an affair with her ex?

Is it worth hurting couples' feelings for their ex? It is better to cherish the happiness in front of you than to be friends with your predecessor.

04: Teacher Yu got married at the age of 35.

I can't accept it. A woman who keeps in touch with her ex after marriage at least doesn't respect her husband and this marriage. It takes two hands to applaud, but a woman is still in contact with her ex, which shows that she doesn't want to let go of her ex at all, and she wants to find a chance to regain her old love.

A woman who keeps in touch with her ex after marriage shows that she is a casual and half-hearted woman. Such a woman may do something sorry for her marriage at any time, and betrayal is only a matter of time.

How to deal with the relationship with your ex after marriage?

Whether out of responsibility for marriage or respect for your lover, the best ending with your predecessor is: whether you are prosperous or mediocre in this life is none of my business.

What I want to know is, those who keep saying that they can't be lovers' friends, are you so short of ex-friends? What does this former friend mean to you? Where is your frustration?