Is it necessary to send a circle of friends on your birthday?

I don't want to talk! But in order to continue the article, I have to say-today is my birthday.

It's no big deal to have a birthday. Who hasn't celebrated yet? But since it's your birthday, this problem is different. It's no big deal to celebrate. Who can't celebrate? But after the celebration, you sent a circle of friends, and this problem is different. It's no big deal if you send your relatives and friends away. Isn't this an era keen on basking in happiness? But send friends to relatives and friends, you are happy and want to remind others to send red envelopes. This question is different.

You fell in love, broke up, got rich, went bankrupt, got promoted, and devolved. These things were originally private, but when you send a circle of friends, it becomes business. Who cares if others are so busy?

Therefore, all friends who want to care about blessings and red envelopes can stop sending them. After all, people who care about you will miss you no matter how far apart they are, so you don't have to take the initiative to mention it. Everything you do for someone who doesn't care about you is in vain, just as you can't wake a person who pretends to sleep or impress someone who doesn't care about you. Instead of releasing information in a big way, it is better to enjoy your happiness at this moment, and instead of bending down pitifully, it is better to use this time to improve yourself.

I used to think it was a great thing to celebrate my birthday. It seems that people who know will be heinous if they don't bless me. But in the past two years, I have gradually become indifferent to this matter. I don't care if someone doesn't bless me. If someone gives me a blessing, I will keep it in mind and cherish it doubly.

I also gradually understand that real care must come from people who really care about you. People who really care about you don't need you to send relatives and friends to remind them in a big way. They will remember themselves. For people who don't care about you, it may be the wisest thing for you to live your life quietly and be lenient.

Of course, I still want to say that in this era of printing pictures, it is personal freedom to send or not, and others have no right to interfere. Just be happy.