Children are bitten in kindergarten, and parents bite their parents. Is this a helpless move?

I think this is also a helpless move and a reaction that is difficult to control my emotions. After children go to kindergarten, every parent is very concerned about their children's situation at school, for fear that their children will be bullied at school. A few days ago, Ms. Yan from Zhengzhou had a conflict with the parents of other children because of her child's injury.

Children are bitten in kindergarten, and parents bite their parents. Ms. Yan's son goes to school in a kindergarten in Zhengzhou, but after school, she always receives a text message from the teacher saying that the child was accidentally injured by her classmates. I didn't care at first, but when I received the teacher's short message again, she felt something was wrong, because this was the fourth time she heard the teacher say that the child was injured by the same classmate.

So she came to the kindergarten to check the monitoring. I didn't expect the monitoring content to make her very angry. In the surveillance video, another child kept running after his own child, then held down his arm and took a bite, but no teacher stopped him. Ms. Yan realized that the teacher's words were deceptive and not heartless at all. The other party's behavior is very bad.

Faced with this situation, Ms. Yan asked the kindergarten and the parents of another child to give a statement. Later, the kindergarten called the parents of another child to the kindergarten for mediation, but the attitude of the other party made Ms. Yan very dissatisfied. The other party said that it is impossible to take the child to check, and don't pay a dime, otherwise you will bite me.

In desperation, Ms. Yan directly stepped forward in front of the teacher and bit each other hard, and she bit very hard. Afterwards, Ms. Ye regretted this and thought that she was impulsive. However, because the child has been injured many times, it is really unacceptable. She hopes that the kindergarten can refund the tuition.

Although the kindergarten has always said that Ms. Yan's child was accidentally injured by the same child, Ms. Yan does not agree with this. After mediation by many parties, the kindergarten refunded the remaining tuition fees to Ms. Yan and was willing to ask a psychologist to solve psychological problems for her children. Parents who bite their children also said in the subsequent mediation that they will be more disciplined in the future. The two sides reached an agreement on this incident.

I think this is really a helpless move, and it is out of control in a hurry. In fact, if you think about this scene, you will know that your child was injured by the same child many times in kindergarten, but the other parents did not sincerely apologize and did not want to take the child to the hospital for examination. This kind of thing, who will not accept, the other party said at this time? Why don't you bite me? This attitude is really unacceptable.

For Ms. Yan, she is very distressed and worried about her child's injury. Faced with this attitude of the other parents, she lost control of her emotions in a hurry and bit the other person directly. That's understandable. Of course I don't approve of this move, but for a mother, it may be the most helpless choice.

Only the parents and kindergartens of children are mainly responsible for biting people. I think if the other party is sincere and the garden is serious and responsible enough in the management of children's education, this will not happen.

In real life, there are always many things that we don't want to see happen. We should teach children to protect themselves. When children are really wronged, parents are the last resort for them.

We need to protect our children, but we should also try to control our emotions.