April Fool was sentenced to three years and six months in prison for writing blackmail letters. How to grasp the scale of joking between friends?

I don't know when it started. Many people like to celebrate April Fool's Day and play jokes on April Fool's Day.

On April Fool's Day this year (1), many people joked and even did something excessive today. A person wrote a letter on April Fool's Day in April 1? Threatening letters? I gave it to my friend, and finally my friend thought it was true, so I called the police, and then the man was sentenced to three years and six months in prison. I thought it was just a joke, but I didn't expect the consequences to be so serious.

It's not too much to joke with friends. Sometimes you even need to joke with friends to relieve stress, but you should also pay attention to the scale when joking and don't make some excessive moves. How to grasp the scale when joking with friends?

First, don't poke the other person's pain when joking.

Everyone has his own password that can't be made public, and everyone has his own personal experience that he doesn't want to be mentioned again, even his brother. Sometimes people think you are his good friend, so they will share with you some personal experiences that are very private or unwilling to be made public. Please give him some advice. At this time, as a good friend, you should keep secrets for your friends, keep your mouth shut and protect their fragile hearts. A friend can tell you the secret of his heart, which shows that you are very important to him. But since it is a secret, you should not make it public, even in a joking tone, because if you make it public, people will feel betrayed. So don't poke a friend's sore spot when joking.

Second, pay attention to words and grasp the scale.

As good friends, we may often play jokes on each other when chatting, but when joking, we should also distinguish between occasions, what we should say and what we should not say, and learn to grasp the scale ourselves. Sometimes you tell ugly stories about your friends in a joking way. Maybe others don't mind, but if you can't pay attention to your words and grasp the scale, it's not as simple as joking, because everyone has a bottom line. It's really bad to touch other people's bottom line at will.

Third, don't hurt others' self-esteem.

Everyone has his own dignity. It's too much to trample on others' dignity when joking. Imagine how you would feel if it was difficult for others to joke and completely ignored your dignity, so when joking, you should also put yourself in the other person's shoes and consider whether this question should be said as a joke.

Joking can also be a way of communication between good friends, but if it goes too far, it's not just a joke. (The picture comes from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact to delete it. )