What should I do if my girlfriend ignores me (6 ways to teach you how to coax your girlfriend)

In this relationship, our contradictions often break out, and this contradiction is a headache, and we often feel that there are any problems that need to be communicated between the two sides. If you want to communicate with your girlfriend, you need to work hard in three aspects. One: You know she didn't mean to ignore you. Her behavior is not intentional, she just wants someone you can watch TV with. Second: if she is busy with other things, such as work, then her attention may be on you rather than herself. Third: If you often send her messages, but she seldom replies, then she may be tired of you or feel tired of you.

1, recognizing girlfriend's needs

Many times, we will find that when a girlfriend communicates with a person, she will say, "I don't want to talk if you don't talk." At this time, we should realize what this person's needs are. In other words, when my girlfriend encounters this situation, it is often the time for me to communicate with myself. Why? Because she doesn't want to be ignored, she wants to feel ignored. If you really know, you should apologize to her. Let's see how the word "neglected" came from. For example, the girl said that she was too tired today, and I hope you can spend more time with her and even have dinner with her. If you find this still doesn't work, it's probably because you don't realize why your girlfriend thinks so.

2. Respect your girlfriend

The premise of respect is that both of you have the responsibility to defend each other, including your girlfriend. If two people are not obliged to defend each other. Then respect is the best way for two people. Since neither of you has the responsibility to defend the other side, there is no point between you, only some unnecessary quarrels will occur. When a person doesn't want to communicate with another person too much or often has some contradictions, please respect him.

3. Communication method:

First: you don't need to take the initiative to find her, you can find her through SMS or WeChat. You can choose to send a message or reply to her directly. Or you can express your love for her with an expression pack. Second: She said she was really busy. If one day she can't leave home, she can choose to send a short message to let her feel your concern and love for her. But there is no guarantee that you will have a good response, but there will be. Remember to give her some time. Third: when she wants you to watch TV with her, she can go to you to help you share it. Don't bother at this time, just call someone else.