I sent a few messages to a friend, but he never replied. What should I do?

First of all, it is difficult to lay a solid foundation at first! Maybe you met your favorite MM, and you are ready to attack, so what kind of first impression should you leave on MM in the previous interaction? ? 1, first of all, you should let MM see your self-motivated. The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person. Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream. 2. Mature, responsible and caring. Because MM is petite and weak by nature, it needs to be mature. A leisurely man has a fatal attraction to MM ... don't be like a child. Girls want someone to lean on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility. Make her think you can protect her and make her depend on her. 3. Remember not to be too serious, but don't be too casual. Humor in conversation can attract a MM and make her feel happy with you. Where it is serious, it is serious. It's funny when it's funny. Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull. Second, step by step. If you have made a good first impression on MM, how to proceed to the next step? 1, don't be so specific, you can see at a glance that you are chasing others. Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feeling needs to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want. Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you put on a winning posture from the beginning, you will basically be rejected immediately. 2. Be sure to start with a low profile and don't create a "girlfriend". First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? ! This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air. Don't be too impatient in the process of communication. Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. The key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get". That's true. Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will think of your benefits. Also, don't show the ambition of "you don't want to marry". It's an impulsive image of an ignorant little boy, and it's not good to be too fall in price as a man. 4. Create romantic opportunities appropriately. I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity. You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place, depending on your personal creativity and understanding. 5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually. Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor. If you want to show your sincerity, please invite MM to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home, so that she could accept it more easily. Third, recognize the essence and keep pace with the times. 1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise. You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend. I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" " So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you. 2, don't blindly confess, be sure to seize the opportunity. As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid". 3. Have you ever had to confess? Yes! For example, there is a third party, or you have an immature relationship with a girl, but two people may be separated for a while. At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck. All in one blog. 4. Don't export the word "love" easily. I often see "bold confession". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility. A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible. Moreover, I think "love" is not to "do", but a very heavy word. The fourth word, civilized love, can not be forced, chasing MM is a serious social activity, don't disturb others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never do stupid things, and never mistake others for yourself. 2, not every MM can catch up. A good girl will always be chased by many people, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin. Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters every day, you must feel disgusted. Love is a substance, but it is by no means a substance. Love needs a material foundation, at least it is relatively balanced. There are basically so many principles in the preface, but we must pay attention to learning and flexible application. Raiders are dead and people are alive. We can't cover the living with dead raiders. Remember to analyze the specific situation. Finally, I wish all GG who read this article can get their favorite mm ^_^