The boyfriend who broke up is perfunctory.

After breaking up, my boyfriend began to recover, but it was perfunctory. He didn't really think about the reasons for breaking up, and he didn't show real regret. On the contrary, he just said some empty apologies and promises, but didn't take any practical action to change his behavior.

emotional instability

I know very well that my feelings for him have not disappeared, but his perfunctory recovery made me hesitate. I don't know if he really wants to change, or if he has other plans. This unresolved state makes me feel painful and helpless.

Calm thinking

Faced with my boyfriend's perfunctory recovery, I know I need to think calmly. I need a more comprehensive understanding of the reasons for breaking up and his attitude. I want to see his real actions and attitude, not just listen to his empty talk. Only in this way can I make the right decision, whether to start over or end this relationship.