Blind date men are not sincere.

Because blind date men are not sincere, blind date is very common. In our life, there are many single people now, and many old people can be seen dating their children in some corners of the park. So, let's take a look at the insincerity of blind date men.

The insincerity of the blind date is 1 1, with sharp eyes.

If he stares at you and you feel weird, then try not to continue dating him.

2, eyes flashing

This may indicate his insincerity, or he may just be shy. Some people may be influenced by certain cultures, so don't stare at each other when you speak.

He kept looking around while you were talking.

Obviously, this shows that he is not interested in you, even to the point of looking around at other beautiful women or wanting to end it as soon as possible.

4. Hold your chin tight

If his chin is closed and you can see him gnashing his teeth or grinding his lips, then he is impatient with you and this date.

He kept nodding when you were talking.

It is possible that he didn't listen to you at all. However, you can also say that his attention is short-lived. You can ask his opinion to make an estimate.

Step 6 cross your arms or legs

Crossing your arms is a sign of defense. It just means he hasn't opened up to you yet. But it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like you. Maybe he won't cross his arms after a few dates.

7. Put your hand in your trouser pocket.

Like the fork hand, this is also one of the signs to show defense. However, it may also mean that he is not interested in your date.

When he smokes, one hand holds the elbow of the other hand.

Another sign of defense and disinterest. But if he looks up while smoking, it means that he is completely tired of dating.

9. Put your fingers tightly on your chin or lips.

Doing so means that he evaluates or criticizes you in his mind.

The performance of a blind date man is insincere 2 1, and he doesn't contact you actively.

After the blind date, most men will contact you, chat with you on WeChat or by phone. Because men generally have the psychology of conquest, they will take the initiative to conquer the woman they like. As long as you take a fancy to it, even introverted men will take the initiative to take this step and chat with you from time to time.

After all, joining the blind date platform itself means that the woman is willing to have further contact with the man. The hardest step has gone, and the follow-up communication is just a matter of course.

If the blind date doesn't even take the initiative to contact you, then he probably doesn't like you. Girls, don't make excuses for him at this time. Do you think he is busy? Excuse me. Wait a minute. There are not so many excuses.

2, do not take the initiative to meet.

If you have a crush on someone, appreciate someone, and are interested in continuing to associate with someone, you will definitely be invited to meet. Only through meeting, face-to-face communication and dating can we see a person's personality better and get a deeper understanding.

If the blind date has a crush on you, she will definitely find an opportunity to ask you out to meet when chatting.

If you often chat on WeChat phone, but the blind date just doesn't ask you to meet, don't worry, you are definitely not interested.

Girls, don't think about each other at this time. Are they busy? This excuse.

I really like it. Meeting is the most practical thing. I made progress when I met more. For the sake of lifelong events, no matter how busy you are, you will find time. I can't always find time. It just means it doesn't matter if he sees you. At this time, girls, give up decisively and don't deceive yourself as a spare tire.

3. I don't care about your needs when dating.

After the blind date, if everyone intends to go further, it is inevitable that they will date.

At this time, girls should polish their eyes and carefully observe the words and deeds of blind date men in order to understand each other.

Girls often complain that dating is too inflexible and they can't understand their own needs, ranging from deciding the date and place by themselves to eating alone, striding forward when walking or climbing mountains, watching movies and choosing their favorite movies, and so on.

Girls should not think that blind date men will not arrange these things because of their low emotional intelligence at this time. You know, he is just an adult with low emotional intelligence, not low IQ.

Adults have been wandering around the society for so long that they still have some common sense about how to deal with basic interpersonal communication.

When two people go out, whether they are dating the opposite sex or traveling with friends, they can't follow one's temperament. They must consider each other's needs, otherwise there will be no friends.

These principles of life should not be beyond the ability of adults.

So, girls, if the other person doesn't consider your needs at all during the dating process, it must be that he doesn't like you and doesn't care about your opinion. Give up decisively.

Time will make you see everyone clearly, and companionship will make you see every heart clearly.

Some people are really not suitable for you, so don't sell yourself short when the other person doesn't like you. Of all the people in Qian Qian, there is always a suitable person waiting for you. If you don't have confidence to let him move for you, give up decisively!

The performance of the blind date man is 3 1, and he has no requirements for himself, but a lot for you.

That's my friend Lulu. Lulu's conditions are not bad After graduating from graduate school in Beijing, she worked for two years and went home. With a postgraduate degree, she worked as a teacher in a local educational institution, saved a down payment and bought a small apartment. She usually likes reading books and tea art, and she also travels several times throughout the year. Small cities don't care how high women's working ability is and how colorful their lives are. In the eyes of relatives and friends, Lulu is just a 30-year-old unmarried woman.

The blind date was introduced by neighbors and aunts, and their work qualifications were poor. Lulu thought about marriage or personality, and she went at the urging of her family. After meeting, we talked about our daily life. The other party said to Lulu: I think your conditions are all good. Try to be a civil servant. It's no use reading. Girls still have to honor their parents and take care of their families.

Lulu asked, don't you have any hobbies? Don't you have to take care of your family? The other side confidently said: I have to go to work every day! Lulu was speechless. Who doesn't have to work?

Nine times out of ten, this man who asks a lot of you but doesn't ask himself is irresponsible. How do you believe he can be a shield for your future life? Don't expect him to have the right, money and everything. At least taking responsibility is the most basic condition for a man.

2. Look at you with an audit eye and find someone? Or security check?

Xiaoxu's sister wants to introduce her to someone. The other party asked for Xiaoxu's contact information, but there was no contact. A few days later, Xiaoxu forgot about it. Suddenly, one day, Xiaoxu received an application from a new friend on WeChat, only to know that she was the previous blind date.

After the meeting, the other party kept talking about their future plans, when to get married, where to go for their honeymoon, how long to have children after marriage, and how to educate their children ... Xiaoxu was puzzled. Didn't we meet for the first time? Do you need to know each other first?

The other party said that our whole family is quite satisfied with you. My parents have visited you at your workplace and asked your leader about you. Congratulations, few people can come to my house.

Xiaoxu looked puzzled. Are you looking for someone? Is your family an international security organization?

Many people think it is normal for the other party to ask about your situation in marriage! Yes, I want to know that girl is real, but to examine you so confidently shows that he has no respect for you at all.

Marriage is a matter of two people and two families. If you set up many barriers at the beginning, there will be more restrictions waiting for you in the future. This is not to give you a home, this is to give you a yoke.

3, the topic is hard to talk about, just want to take the kidney and don't want to be centrifugal.

Nannan's blind date is good and humorous in all aspects. During the whole chat, Nannan was quite happy. What makes Nan Nan a little uncomfortable is that the other party sometimes throws a few jokes to drive a car. Nannan felt that they had just met, and it was really inappropriate to say this, so they kept changing the subject, but soon they started again.

After watching the movie in the evening, the other party said that he was very happy today and would not go back tonight. Nannan was scared out in a sweat and insisted on going home. The other party said with a smile, nothing. I can't play next time.

I didn't think anyone would ask out through a blind date, did I? After all, there are intermediaries, sometimes even parents and relatives. Chatting with my sisters, I found that there are not a few people who have sex under the guise of blind date. If you're just having fun, you'll ignore this one, but please believe that you're definitely not the first girl and won't be the last.