The birth of small eggplant-you are my miracle (non-invasive comeback)

First of all, I would like to thank all the bodhisattvas, immortals, ghosts and gods, storms and clouds for the smooth birth of the little eggplant and wish our mother and son a smooth meeting. Second, I want to thank my baby, thank you for choosing me as my baby in the vast sea of people, and my mother will always love you. Third, I want to thank my little eggplant father, grandparents, and thank you for your escort and care all the way. You are my closest and biggest spiritual pillar, and always will be.

The purpose of writing this article is not only to commemorate the significance, but also to encourage expectant mothers who are experiencing various troubles during pregnancy, especially the high-risk group of 18 trisomy. I hope my experience can bring you hope and strength, just as I saw expectant mothers writing down their experiences and encouraging me.

Next, I will begin to state what obstacles I experienced in the nine months before the birth of the little eggplant and how we broke through one obstacle after another.

After the first low progesterone (the hormone that the mother guarantees the stability of the fetus), the value of HCG (the parameter of the growth of the fetus itself) doubled after tens of thousands. I went to see a doctor several times and saw Hong, so my little eggplant father forced me to lie in bed in fear for three weeks, getting bored and scared day by day, thus spending the first three months in danger.

Because of some unknown policy influence, the hospital where I had my pregnancy test did not have Tang screening, but it was non-invasive, so I skipped the initial Tang screening and directly made a higher-level non-invasive examination (13,18,21chromosome and sex chromosome abnormality screening, the accuracy rate is said to be 99%). It is a truth that no news is good news. Four days later, little eggplant's father came to pick me up from work and told me in the car that someone told him that the test result was 18 trisomy high risk ... I can't express my feelings. I went to get the report as soon as possible and saw the bright red word 18 trisomy risk value 1 1.94 (greater than 3 is high risk). The nurses said that such a high value was definitely correct, but we still chose to go to the countryside to have an amniocentesis-I hope the final gold standard. During amniocentesis, the B-ultrasound screen was on the right side of my head. It was the first time I saw the baby's cute little figure. His hands and feet were circling like riding a bicycle, and my face was covered with tears. At that time, I asked the surgeon, do I still have hope to turn over? She said that 2 1 is basically enough, and 18 is still promising, but your value is very high ... (Glancing at me again) ... There is still hope.

Then there is a dying wait. It takes a month to get the results, which is really terrible for anxious parents. How can I describe the feeling every day? Just like the feeling of lovelorn, it was the most painful time, and I couldn't get rid of that kind of suffocation. 1 day, 2 days, 3 days ... 1 week ... 2 weeks ... 3 weeks. During this period, my little eggplant father and I searched and consulted all kinds of online and offline materials countless times every day, only hoping to find some hope and comfort. I even bought two books on genetics. I don't know enough to read them. I just hate that I didn't study genetics. During the period, little eggplant dad was more anxious than me, but the two comforted each other under great pressure. According to a non-invasive accuracy research report published by Red House Hospital on HowNet, 18 trisomy even has a false positive rate of one third. This report gives us a glimmer of hope.

From the third week, every few hours, I will ask if the other party has received a phone call from the hospital. I dare not miss a phone call. As soon as the phone calls, my heart will jump wildly to see if it starts with 640 (a phone call from a woman and a baby). I'm looking forward to the call, but I'm afraid I'll go to rolling in the deep immediately after receiving it. At the end of the fourth week, little eggplant's father really couldn't sit still and went directly to the hospital to ask for the result. Fortunately, the result we waited for was: fetal chromosome XN (.

It is said that two weeks after I finished the sheep puncture, some amniotic fluid leaked. My mother was very worried about whether my placenta was affected, but I stopped worrying later, but I don't know if the subsequent sheep puncture will cause a series of hidden dangers.

This stage is more comfortable, you can eat and drink at will, take a walk at will and go shopping at will. Although I am pregnant, I like going to work very much, even more than before I was pregnant, and I enjoy my work every day. Tell a funny story, as a young pregnant woman, my arms and calves began to grow black and thick hair like savages, and I fluttered in the wind with Xia Feng every day, but I walked around without regard for my image.

The routine screening of gestational diabetes mellitus in the third trimester and large area teratoma passed smoothly, but my edema was more serious than that of ordinary pregnant women. Colleagues found my face deformed, but I think it's normal to disagree. Who knows that the most dangerous level lurks behind severe edema, that is FGR (intrauterine growth restriction) caused by pregnancy-induced hypertension. My performance is edema, and then the proportion of umbilical blood flow increases. How did I find the big heart? Otherwise, I won't thank all the immortals.

That morning, I went to do the company's routine annual physical examination. God knows why I chose that day. A few days earlier or a few days later, the result may be different. At my request, the doctor kindly gave me a B-ultrasound, saying that the displayed growth value should be 365,438+0 weeks and 6 days, but in fact I should be 32 weeks and 5 days now. And said the placenta didn't look flat enough, that's all. Then go back to work in the company and work overtime at night. When I got home, I found a little water leakage and felt a little uneasy, but I waited until the next day to go to the maternity check-up hospital for examination.

The next day, the nurse told me to hang up the emergency room as soon as I heard the leak. Results The doctor said it wasn't amniotic fluid, and let me do a B-ultrasound, which showed that the blood flow of SD was high, the blood flow of middle cerebral artery was lower than that of umbilical vein, and the fetus only grew 3 mm in 2 weeks. Great, let me get dressed and go to the hospital-actually, directly to the delivery room-for fetal heart monitoring. 1 hour later, the delivery room doctor said that the fetus was in stable condition.

At this time, the attending doctor in the ward called me and asked me to call the prospective father to talk. She said, "Your condition is very dangerous. It's hard to say whether you can guarantee it today. There was a similar patient in our hospital before, and she was on the same day ... "So I was transferred back to the delivery room for fetal heart monitoring and oxygen inhalation. I think, um, I can go home after staying for one night today? I have only been in the delivery room for 33 weeks. What's going on here?

That night, I guess I heard three maternal wails, mixed with the piercing cry of "I don't want … I don't want … I don't want" … it's really sad.

Worryingly, proteinuria began to appear the next morning, and the results of B-ultrasound showed that the situation was not as good as the previous day. The amniotic fluid level dropped, and three B-ultrasound doctors stood beside me to discuss the blood flow and spectrum of my case. That's great. The director of obstetrics and the dean talked to my little eggplant's parents and asked me to have a caesarean section in the afternoon. Dean's uncle personally told me that the current intrauterine environment is very dangerous for the baby, and the baby can't come out safely. He said that the next day was the National Day holiday, and the doctors were basically absent. No one can predict what will happen in seven days. The baby's score is 9.0, and your 95% chance of caesarean section is good now ... I said, I want it. The head nurse gently told me that the risk was too great, and I would be very sad at that time ... In fact, I always wanted to give birth naturally throughout pregnancy, and the baby's fetal position was also the best. There was no placenta previa or anything, but in short, I could only cut it off.

As a result, I unloaded the goods 40 days early.

Every mother goes through the pain of childbirth. Natural delivery is very painful, and caesarean section is also very sad. Shaving is nothing. The first time I experienced the pain of inserting a catheter. It is also very painful to promote the maturity of fetal lungs, as well as the acupuncture pain and swelling pain of the spine on the operating table ... lying on the operating table, half numb, basically unconscious, suddenly waking up, awakened by the crisp baby crying in a trance, and the doctor at the bedside followed the crying to see a little person ... I am nearsighted and can't see clearly. A nurse said to take the baby out and put it on my mouth for me to kiss, but I have no memory at all.

I am finally relieved. I believe that the hardest part has passed, and the mental suffering has basically ended here.

However, when I was moved into the ward by two male nurses, it was the beginning of unprecedented physical pain: the discomfort of catheter, analgesic pump, antihypertensive drugs, anti-inflammatory drugs and blood tonic drugs hit my arm and hurt, and my body was like being baked by fire. The pain of my stomach being crushed by lochia, the tearing pain of the antithrombotic needle on my stomach, and the pain of contractions after waves challenge my pain nerves every minute, which brings strong discomfort.

The most unbearable thing is to go to the toilet on the ground after pulling out the catheter. Usually I stand up with my arms up, sit up straight, stretch my legs, stand up and walk on the ground-such an easy, one-step action. Nowadays, the tearing and pain caused by every tiny movement is almost fatal. Seven wounds times seven times the pain. Every time I go to the toilet, I will get rid of most of my life, extremely tired and embarrassed ... The nurse said that not every woman is so embarrassed to hold her urine.

Then there is the pain of raising milk and milking, because I didn't give birth naturally and didn't have a full term. I wanted to give my baby colostrum, so I had to squeeze it hard and stimulate it hard. It was painful at first, and the breast was blocked. Fortunately, 12ml colostrum was finally squeezed out on the third day. Later, there will be an increase in milk for several days in a row. That kind of pain is the first time in my life, which makes me only smile.

On the fourth day after delivery, the baby was discharged from the ICU and transferred to the general ward of premature infants, and no oxygen was needed. I really want to see him early every day.

After staying in the hospital for more than 20 days, I finally met my little eggplant. From the moment I held you, my happiness burst.

Although I was born badly, I was lucky. Now we are healthy, strong, smart, lively and love singing and dancing. Although you love crying and coquetry every day, you are also naughty and clingy, but your mother prays for you every year, and lucky children should continue to cheer. May you have peace in this life, and your mother loves you.

Premature infant feeding: breast milk+fortifier+premature infant formula, it is best to buy a milking machine.

Premature babies must be examined after birth: monthly physical examination (first six months 1 time, last six months 1 time, 1 three months after age 1 time …), ROP fundus screening (a little scary but necessary) and GSM gait analysis.

Pregnancy symptoms: severe nausea for 4 months, but only vomited twice. In the first trimester, the gestational sac is long, the chest and weight are not much bigger, there are moles, a small amount of pigmentation, no stretch marks, easy to sweat, increased hair, blackening and densification, and love to eat meat.